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okayy .. i have quite the dilema. my (ex) boyfriend, craig.. of 5 months and me broke up .. its been about a month .. and i thought i was over him. i could see other people and i am currently dating a guy named mark. well mark could be in jail for quite some time for breaking his probation by transporting drugs .. but craig was that one guy, the one you will NEVEr completely get over .. you know. and he feels like he fucked up and he wants me back. i want to be with him. i miss him like crazy. but i guess ive keepen it hidden .. even from myself ..
i dont want to be a bitch and give mark nothing to look forward to getting out for .. but me and him have been togehter only one week before he got sent to jail .. we barely started a relatioship. and while i like him. i can only tink about craig .. i dont know waht to do .. i dont want to be that bitch who leaves her boyfriend cause he went to jail ..
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if your still in love with criag it isn't fair to any of you to be leading mark on. i think it would be worse in your case to stay with mark and still be thinking about the other guy. talk to mark and tell him that you just can't see him knowing that he isn't the one...well he's not the one you never get over and it would be easier to break things offf while you havn't been seeing him for that long. and mention it has nothing to do with him going to jail becuase if he really was the one that wouldn't matter. if criag is really sorry and wants you back and you still love him give him another chance
p.s. i know it might be kind of hard to talk to mark if he's already in jail but you have to. like i said it isn't fair to anyone.
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allright, think about it: do you want to marry a guy who has gone to jail? would you want him to be the father of your children? i sure wouldn't. mark got sent to jail, that's his own dumb fault. he shouldn't be holding you down, and you shouldn't feel like you have to stay with him because you were only going out a week before he went to jail. break up with mark, go out with craig. it seems like mark doesn't care enough about the people around him to not break his probation. what kind of boyfriend is that? it seems like you're never going to be completely happy with mark because you still like craig anyway. break up with mark. go back to craig.
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