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Does he like me.. or is he playing about?
ok so about 4 months ago i saw this guy, that worked in this shopping mall ... i had never seen him before... the point is was staring at me all the time i was there( in a really nice way..) and i did the same :) I kept going back for weeks... Till I plucked up the courage to give him my phone number and email address we spoke twice on messenger.. and sent each other a few emails.. the point is he continued staring every time i went there even though his friends have been there with him sometimes and I get the feeling he has told them about me.. but we havent exacly spoken face to face.. he has given me mixed signals cause i am usually the one who has sends him the emails and he doesnt answer for weeks . But a guy who stares at you for such a long time every time you see him... should mean something.. right? He has told me he is kind of shy… and he has a boring life.. Could he be hinting me indirectly that he is single.. Or something? He is working when i see him but that doesnt mean we cant speak...
I am really confused!! And any sort of help would do.. Ohh by the way im 17 going on eighteen and he is 21
Thanx!!
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there is a bit of an age difference and it doesnt really sound like you know his personality all that well. If he told you he was shy he might also be hard headed and just as confused as you after all you stare at him too. Id say hello one day ask him how he is ask him about a pair of clothes whatever lame excuse to start up a conversation. you can act right. guys dont always get signals girls send and if they do they might worry about whether or not you like them even though you email him you need to talk in person if you really want something to become of the relationship. remember every guy you see you dont have to date you can just be friends.
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ohhh one of the mixed signals things. hmm...there could be any answer to this. the opposite sex is complicated. one thing that i can say is maybe you can ask him if you wanna hang out sometime when hes off work. dont make it sound as much as a date cuz you never know what he thinks. just ask him to go somewhere, say theres a moive you wanna see n invite him to come with him. something to do so you can talk n get to know him a little better. let things happen on their own.
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Well he did tell his freind about you but i think you should stop having to be the one that emails and calls first because that way hell go braging to his freinds and use you as a spare.He can even have a girlfreind and just have you on the side so he can brag because he likes attention,i mean hes never had the guts to come talk to you face to face!And its usually the girls that are suppoesd to be shy.Just dont talk to him or email him or anything because that way hell take advantage of your feelings and when you finally get over him,hell talk to you and mess up your feelings again and that my dear,is called PLAYING.
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Well, it sounds to me like he likes you. Sometimes guys are slow whenever it comes to responding. I always feel the need to respond right away whenever I recieve messages from people, and then my guy friends'll sit there for like, 20 minutes and THEN decide to respond. He just might be doing something on the computer that's distracting and he also might not go on the computer as much as you do, or like you said, he works so he might be out working and then he doesn't get the message till alot later. And also, sometimes emails can be slow, so that could be it too. OR.. he could be thinking about what to say back to you so he doesn't want to sound dorky or something. :] But it DOES sound to me like he likes you. Usually whenever guys stare that means they like you, or they're freaked out by you or something, lol, and I doubt it's that if you guys exchange emails and etc. Next time you go to the mall and you see him working, go buy something and talk to him while he's scanning the item and stuff. Just ask him the casual "whats up? hows work?" and just talk to him. And then maybe you could even ask him to hang out with you sometime at the movies or something. Just be like,"Hey, so, whenever you're not working sometime, we should go see a movie or something. There's that new movie, ______ coming out and it looks really good." I hope I helped. <3
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