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boyfriend&his problems.
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 4:35 pm
okay im going out with this guy names josh. well he's went to rehab and everything and is all cleaned up from smoking weed. well recently he started smoking again. and he gets drug tests every wednesday. and he said hes gonna have his brother pee in the cup for him. but if he gets caught i dont want him to go back to rehab or get locked up again. i made him promise me that he wouldnt smoke again but then he smoked yesterday and i found out about it. he says hes been trying but its rly hard to say no cause its around him all the time with his friends. everytime i call him and he doesnt answer i know hes smoking and i just get so mad. i know its mostly his friend scotts fault. scott is always smoking no matter what time it is or anything. and...
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how to ask
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 2:00 pm
how do I ask a boy out and how do i get him to me more hel.p me i really need advice
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do girls leave boys who quit smoking?
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 12:43 pm
okay this is how it goes....
a friend of mine recently quit the smoking habit although he still is a heavy drinker,and the wierd part is that his girl left him because of he quit the smoking habit.So my question is,do girls get turned on by smokers or off?and do girls mind if their guys are drinkers? and finally,what should I say to my friend's girl?cause we all are pretty good friends and I wish I could help mend their relationship.thanks
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always waiting on christmas
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 12:34 pm
ahh i can't wait! i obsess over christmas bcause thats when i get to see my crush (at camp) i don't care about anything anymore, i dont care about how i look, or what i do.. all i care about is that during christmas i have to be perfect. nothing really matters for me anymore because it feels like only christmas matters! if that makes sense? haha i just want to see him so badly! so what's my question?
i have a few..
1) is this healthy?
or should i maybe get over it?
2) what can i do to make the days go faster?
more specifically: is it a bad idea to count the days?
will that make it so that it feels like time goes slowly, or the otehr way around.. like the days just fly by??
thanks advicenators :D
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more effort
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 12:28 pm
14/F
Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together almost 6 months... He doesnt talk to me in school, and he doesnt call me anymore. Well his parents won't let him come over to my house and I haven't been to his house in a long time!!! Also at lunch his friends come and sit with me and he gets mad. What can I do to get him to call me and not get mad!!! 1 last thing... My school has this thing called homecoming and he said that he didnt want to go, but I do, what can I do to get him to go!!!
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is he staying or not???
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 10:50 am
so i really like this guy. and last semester he kinda said that he will go to a different school and then the other day he said that he have to stay. so school startet three days ago and the first day he was there. but the next two days he was'nt. and i dont know if he's coming back now or not cause next week my class is going to a camp for 1 week. and i'm really worried he's going to a different school now cause i really like him and the school is not the same without him. so what should i do? what do you think????
thx alot
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"lets postpone this" a bad idea?
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 10:26 am
me and this guy told eachother that we liked eachother, and as soon as that happened.. i figured we were about to hook up.
but then he had a talk with me, and tld me he realized he's in love with his ex, and he told me we have to postpone whatever it is we have until he gets over her..if he ever does get over her.. doesn't it sound like he doesnt wnat to get over her??
anyways, the questions is, does this sound like a bad idea? i dont know, the reason im hesitating is because´im afraid of being his sloppy seconds, or hisplan B, you know??
but still.. i really want him, so something inside me tells me maybe he was just trying to be honest with me, he didn't want to start anything while he still has feelings for her.....
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Abusive Boyfriend???? + my friends
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 6:46 am
Ok, so this is a bit of a messy situation and any advice you can give will be greatly appricated.
Im an 18yr old female - I've been dating my boyfriend on and off for six years - none of my friends like him. They say hes abusive and controlling. At the moment we are "on a break" but i know that we're going to get back together ... i just dont want my friends to find out becasuse i dont want them to worry about me. Even though my realationship isnt always pretty, i love what i have and im not going to lose it again.
So anything you can say that might help me know what to do would be greatly appricated
thanks
Jenna
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GF stopped taking her meds, what do i do?
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 4:11 am
So ive been going out w/ my girlfriend for 4 months now and up until about the past 3 weeks eevrything has been fantanstic. the 3 weeks comes into play because thats when she stopped taking her anti-depressant medication. She told me she just ran out and hasnt bother to get the prescription re-filled, but i think she just got tired of them. since then shes been lashing out at me, had unstable moods, and just isnt the same. Ive told her shes changing but she just ignores me. I love her very much but if shes goign to continue like this (it seems like its intentional) then i may just have to call it quits.
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problems with a long distance relationship.
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 3:30 am
Okay, so this summer i went to a sleepaway camp for two months and i met my (current) boyfriend there. He lives in a different state then i do and in the beg. it was'nt hard at all to keep in touch and have a relationship with him, but now that school started we stopped talking as much as we did before (we now talk like once a day and maybe twice). But tonight i was at my house with my friends and we were talking online and he told me that he had to talk to me "about us" and then he quickly mentioned that it wasnt bad. so i called him after my friends left but he was busy with his friends so he hung up and called me back like an hour l8er and said "hey i'm really messed up right now so ill call you tomorrow bye" (i thoug...
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My guyfriend is a player!
Posted Sunday September 3 2006, 12:53 am
16/f
So, one of my friends, let's call her June, has a huge crush on one of my guy friends, let's call him Ben. I told June, truthfully, that I was going to try and hook them up on a date, because she's desperate for his attention. And Ben and I are the kind of friends where we hug and smooch eachother on the cheek every day. So before I tell him about June yesterday morning, he leans over and kisses me on the mouth, and before I know it, his tongue's in my mouth, too. I was too surprised to react. I like Ben too, but he's such a flirt and since he's moving in december, all he wants is someone to fool around with, and that someone is me. But June really likes him. I know she deserves better, and I probably do too. I told June...
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crush
Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 11:50 pm
i like this guy, were both shy. so we dont talk much but he kinda likes me and i kinda like him. but he also likes this girl that is a complete slut and uses people. everybody jokes him for it and says shes just using him and she does stuff with other guys, all my friends & his friends tell him he should go out with me instead of her but how can i get him to really like me instead, & also what are ways of flirting without like completly flirting and ways to bring up conversations
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help me figure out how i should go about doing this
Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 11:20 pm
ok im 15/M. i like this one chick, and i THINK SHE LIKES ME. but i dont know though for sure. but she also acts like she likes this other dude. and this really got me confused. so how should i go about finding out if she like me or the other dude.
-thanks
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normal/realistic?
Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 10:43 pm
Okay so i'm 14, and my boyfriend is 17.(he just turned it about a month ago, and i am turning 15 in November).
We are seriously crazy about each other, and if you want to say that a 14 doesn't know what love is, then i'm the next closest thing to it. We've been together for about a year (16 days shy). We want to be together forever. Yeah, you can think we're crazy, it's alright. lol. What i'd like to know is, is it normal to feel like this at an age like 14, and is it realistic that we could last forever?
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Steven<3
Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 9:24 pm
I like this boy named Steven. and we talk a lot but we've never met (I know him through my ex boyfriend, haha). and we're pretty much eachother's type. But he really really likes my friend who he's never met either. and they barely ever talk. only like twice online. she's really gorgeous but has no personality. and I know he only likes her for her looks and it makes me really sad because we're good for eachother. I'm not ugly, I'm just not as good looking as her. but I'm a lot funnier and nicer.
so, what do I do?
We're all supposed to hang out and I want to tell him. But he's just so shallow, and I hate that. it's just a crush. so should I let it go or tell him to see what he says?
the thing is, he consi...
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Date him or not?
Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 9:17 pm
I like this one guy, well call him Joe. Well joe likes me back. But joe is good friends with my ex-boyfriend, who still really likes me and were still friends. My best friend told me not to go out with Joe because my ex would be sad. And she also said she would be sooo mad at me because my ex is so perfect for me(acording to her and no one else). I really wanna date joe but i fear my ex and my bff will me mad.
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confused/depressed.
Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 7:14 pm
Kinda has to do about my love life and my job.
Right now im really depressed and stuck with a decision i dont want to make. I just really want to cry and let everything out but then again i dont want my parents asking me whats a matter. Is their anything i can do that will make me feel better?
thank you.
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Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 6:30 pm
okay so i am going to homecoming with this guy that i really really like a lot. i am quite nervous about it too. what kind of dress should i wear. how should i do my hair and makeup? any tips for any part of homecoming would be greatly appreciated.
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Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 6:22 pm
how do you have a conversation with someone that you already know everything about. and i mean everything. and they know everything about you.
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where do we go from here
Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 4:35 pm
16/m a couple of days ago i asked this girl out and she said that she only liked me as a friend and she wanted us to get to know each other better first and then maybe we could try it. i'm ok with that but i dont really know how to get to know her better or anything i dont know what to do. any ideas?
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