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i like this guy, were both shy. so we dont talk much but he kinda likes me and i kinda like him. but he also likes this girl that is a complete slut and uses people. everybody jokes him for it and says shes just using him and she does stuff with other guys, all my friends & his friends tell him he should go out with me instead of her but how can i get him to really like me instead, & also what are ways of flirting without like completly flirting and ways to bring up conversations
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okay.. so i love making guys like me. haha. like. me and my friends make jokes of it.. and are like. " im gunna make that guy like me.. " and it totally works. because we flirt.. but soo casually.. like. if the class is getting partners.. go up to him and if he already has a partner.. be like. uhh sorryy.. hes gunna be my partner now! and like.. be like. " okay so and so.. ill marry you! " it may sound retarded... but.. it works.. cuz boys are suckers. haha. and if you are just like.. " guess waht? i have a crush on you!" and laugh.. like its a joke.. they`ll bite the bait.. it allwaayyss works as long as you dont make it seem needy.... tHERES NOtHiNG A GUY WANtS MORE tHAN SOMEtHiNG HE CANt HAVE. and guys like sluts... but in the end.. they dont want a slut as a girlfriend.
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I'm kind of shy, too, so I know what you're going through. Talk to him, ask him what he's doing on Friday, or over the weekend. Invite him to something that you and your friends are doing. Ask him what he's into, if he's into music, ask what artists he likes, and be interested in it.
Make him feel like you're someone that he can trust.
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Shy guys are hard. Talk about him, ask what he did over the weekend or like what hes into. Try to understand his interest then later you can use them for more convos. just when you flirt dont make him uncomfortable and talk about tht bitch so he can vent a little, he'll gain trust in you and it'll work.
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