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Member Since: August 30, 2006
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Last Update: September 3, 2006
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In high school, do most people carry around their bookbag? Or locker when they need to? I'm just scared that my class will be like across the school when I need to locker. (link)
Depends on the school. In my school if your a senior or if your locker is having troubles you can carry your bookbag. One year my locker was on the other side of school and i was always lkate for classes. Finnally i shared a locker with a VERY trustworthy friend of mine that was closer and i wasnt late nomore. Just hope thatyou have a good locker.


i like this guy, were both shy. so we dont talk much but he kinda likes me and i kinda like him. but he also likes this girl that is a complete slut and uses people. everybody jokes him for it and says shes just using him and she does stuff with other guys, all my friends & his friends tell him he should go out with me instead of her but how can i get him to really like me instead, & also what are ways of flirting without like completly flirting and ways to bring up conversations (link)
Shy guys are hard. Talk about him, ask what he did over the weekend or like what hes into. Try to understand his interest then later you can use them for more convos. just when you flirt dont make him uncomfortable and talk about tht bitch so he can vent a little, he'll gain trust in you and it'll work.


17/f
My bf who is 19 lives in another state because he's going to college there. He came back for the summer and we had sex for the first time a few weeks ago. Then I didn't hear from him for a few days. I called his parents and it turned out he'd headed back to college already!!! Why didn't he say goodbye? Why won't he answer his cellphone now? Was he using me? How could he just do this to me after 2 years together? What's going on? Was losing my virginity to him a mistake? I'm sorry there's so many questions I just don't understand!!!! I thought what we had was so real! (link)
This is one of the bad things in life that happen in life. Some guys do use girls to get what they want and they can be really convincing. It sounds like he was probably using you not that you want to hear that but it sounds like that in this case. If you dont regret having sex with him then it wasnt a mistake. I lost my virginity the same way so its not only you if that helps any.


Hey guys.

ok, well I have a best friend. me and him are very close and would do anything for eachother. we go to school together now and talk non-stop. lately though since we go to the same school he would say that he wanted to be with one of my friends.. it's kinda akward to me because he is my best friend and i don't know it's just really weird to me. i don't want to loose him. he wants me to hook him up and i think it's just.. idk weird. what do you think it is? and what should i do? thanks. (link)
I know its hard. A lot of people have been in this situation. I've been in it several times. All you can do is be supportive so you dont mess up anything in your relationship with him. If you feel uncomfortable hooking them up tell him that. If you dont want him to know that you dont wanna do it for whatever reason, say its because if things go bad between you friend and him you dont want to be responsible for it. If you guys are as close as you say you are he'll understand.




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