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always waiting on christmas
ahh i can't wait! i obsess over christmas bcause thats when i get to see my crush (at camp) i don't care about anything anymore, i dont care about how i look, or what i do.. all i care about is that during christmas i have to be perfect. nothing really matters for me anymore because it feels like only christmas matters! if that makes sense? haha i just want to see him so badly! so what's my question?
i have a few..
1) is this healthy?
or should i maybe get over it?
2) what can i do to make the days go faster?
more specifically: is it a bad idea to count the days?
will that make it so that it feels like time goes slowly, or the otehr way around.. like the days just fly by??
thanks advicenators :D
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1) It's not healthy to not care about anything anymore. It's perfectly fine that you want to see your crush, we all can realate to that. :)
2) Talk to him on AIM or via myspace (if he has either, that is). Counting the days will most definitely make the days go by slowly. Get involved in a sport in your school, or spend more time with friends.
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To make the days go faster instead of only focusing on Christmas, get outside, see your friends etc etc. Activities will speed up the days alot more than sitting there hoping for Christmas to hurry up and come.
As for it being healthy, it's only natural to be excited about seeing your crush, but it seems like it's getting in the way of your every day life, as you've said you don't care about anything else any more, such as your appearance and what you do. You need to change this if you can!
Christmas will be here before you know it.
So don't let this crush stop you doing things, get out there and time will fly!
Feel free to ask away if you'd like further advice :)
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don't think about it and before you know it, it will be christmas.
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1) ha, well i don't know about healthy, but it's normal to be really excited about visiting your boyfriend while he's at camp. but i don't think it's as healthy where you don't care about anything else. i wouldn't necessairly get over it, but i would just try and focus on it less.
2) i would not count down the days. whenever i do that, it only makes the days seem slower. if you're not caring about anything else ( like also hanging out with friends ), try giving them a call now and try to hang out with them more and go out more. this will both focus your attention elsewhere and less on christmas and then whenever you do a bunch of activities for a few days and then you look back on the calender, you're like,"whoa, 4 days went by?" cause you're not paying attention as much to the calender. like people say,"time flies by when you're having fun." :]
i hopr i helped.
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