help me figure out how i should go about doing this
Question Posted Saturday September 2 2006, 11:20 pm
ok im 15/M. i like this one chick, and i THINK SHE LIKES ME. but i dont know though for sure. but she also acts like she likes this other dude. and this really got me confused. so how should i go about finding out if she like me or the other dude.
-thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MelLeDisko answered Sunday September 3 2006, 3:19 am: If she's acting like she likes this other guy, especially whenever you're around, she's probably just trying to get you to become jealous and make you like her more. He could also just be a really good friend of hers. That's the one thing about girls having best guy friends. People always assume "oh they're dating, they like eachother, they're flirting", when really, they're far from. But, anyways. If you don't already talk to her, start and just keep the conversation going, and try flirting a little bit, and see if she flirts back. And just try and make her laugh, and whenever you have to go or she has to or whatever, just let her know how you feel. Just be like,"I'm not sure how you feel about me, but I like you, and I just had to tell you cause I know if I didn't do it now I never would and it's bugging me if I don't find out how you feel back." I mean, what's there to lose? You don't ask her, you don't know. She says she doesn't, but at least you know how she feels about you. OR, she says she does and everythings good. :]
partianimal8 answered Sunday September 3 2006, 2:38 am: Wow. Its kind of amazing to see a guy this concerned about a girl. You don't see much of that. Anyways, hello. I'm Kristen/16/F. Um, if you notice that the girl looks at you a certain way, and she makes up excuses to be around you, then chances are she likes you too. If shes more of "just a friend" with the other guy, then make your move. This is what a lot of guys are confused about. Many girls, myself for example, have so many best guy friends. Usually, were closer to guys than girls, because they are always loyal to the friendship. But anyways, maybe what your not seeing is the way she feels about you, and how she probably just considers this other guy as a brotherfigure. Talk to her about the way you feel hunnie, youll get alot settled. i hope i helped. good luck. [ partianimal8's advice column | Ask partianimal8 A Question ]
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