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I don't want to wait any longer
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 2:23 pm
About 8 or 9 months ago, I revealed to a boy that I really like him...he said he didn't want to do anything to put our friendship at risk, so we didn't start a relationship...however, we eventually became intimate with eachother from time to time, (not the kind where I would lose my virginity, but still pretty intimate) so it's sort of evolved into a "friendship with bennefits" thing...I am still very much in love with this boy, and the more time I spend with him (intimate or not) I grow to love him even more. I'm not sure exactly how he feels about me, but I desperately want to move forward with him. I'm not sure what to do...
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how many dates
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 1:59 pm
haow many dates do you go on befroe you can call yourseves boyfriend and girlfriend?
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dating
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 11:47 am
how can i figure out if a girl likes me for sure? i know the most obvious way about it would be to ask her, but i would much rather try to find another as it is a co-worker, so i want a stealthier way.
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A complex situation
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 5:54 am
I have been dating this girl for about 4 months now. We were friends for the past two years though. She went through this horrible breakup with her ex-boyfriend and a major debacle with one of her best friends. She says she loves me, but at times it is like I don't exist or even matter to her anymore. I try to be nice you know, but still she has to be mean to me. I admit I am to blame because I put "words in her mouth." Only because I don't know how she feels about me. I don't know what she thinks of me anymore. I feel unloved. That and she won't be "exclusive" with me. I know she believes it's something that can wait till marriage but it hurts. It really hurts inside at the fact that she went out with another guy. What ...
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phone
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 3:35 am
so at school i am very shy with my boyfriend but i will kind of talk to him, but as soon as i try to talk to him on thee phone i cant so i just never pick up his calls. i feel absolutely horrible but how do i make myself more confident for being able to talk on the phone? thank you!
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Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 3:28 am
all my life ive been the typical nice guy i recently got out of a relationship that i gave everything i had brought her everything she wanteed talked to her everytime she need comfort even though it meant not hanging out with my friends as much as i wanted to and really sacraficing things i enjoy doing because she wanted to spend quality time and now that im out of this relationship i feel so betrailed to puruse another relationship with another girl that ive been friends with a long time and i feel that if i went out with her it might just be a rebound from the last girl i went out with and that wouldn't be fair to her so what should i do should i go out with her or not
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Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 2:19 am
what do girls look for in a guy
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Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 12:55 am
I met a girl at a party this weekend and ever since, we've talked for hours every day. I know she really likes me, and I'm starting to feel the same about her. She seems like she's the kind of person who dates for fun, though..and doesn't take it seriously. I'm all about having fun, but that's not all dating is, and I'm afraid she might think it is. I'm afraid she'll drop me quickly because she seems like she gets bored easily.
Any advice? Thx.
16/m
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i dont know how to flirt and not be awkward.
Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 12:53 am
ok, so i am 15 now and ive never had a boyfriend. and im a girl, obviously.
but anyways, i really like this one kid and he knows and has for like a year now, and ive liked him for about 2 years all together. but overall, i dont know how to flirt without it being awkward and obvious. i feel really wierd when i do.. i mean, i feel obvious. i have so little confidence in myself that i just try to avoid it all together. but it really became clear to me that i have to do something when my friend said that i 'flirt more with girls than guys' and that hurt me.
so basically, what should i do!?
i want SOMETHING to be different this year :/
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i like him...
Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 10:47 pm
Ok. so there`s this guy i really like but he doesn't know it, john (well i don't think he knows). and my friend alisha (she doesnt know i like him either). so last week john asked alisha out and she said no. so i talked to John and he said he was fine with it. but John`s been talking to me online about how alisha thinks he`s mad at her. he says he doesnt like her anymore he just wants to be friends. but my question is why is he coming to me for all of this i mean i just met John like in the beginning of the school year. could he like me? and does anyone know any ways to help him w/ this situation and conversations to start? (because i really like him) oh yeah and if you really wanna help me let me know and ill give you my screen name and i`ll show you the conversation.
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Confusedd
Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 9:30 pm
So theres this guy I really like named Adrian.
Hes wicked funny and nice.
We talk all the time and share some of the same intrest.
But anyway..
yesterday he told me that we could only be friends and we will never be more.
That I shouldn't like him anyway cause
I need someone who is nice,happy, and cool.
But even though he says he doesnt like me
he still acts like he does.
Like in Chorus he looks over at me all the time
&& he flirts with me and ughh
I dont know what to think,
im so confuseedd.
HELP PLEASE!
Thanksss :]
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flirting?!?
Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 7:46 pm
ok..
sometimes this guy seems like he likes me.
he talks to me and is always looking at me.
and always hangs around me and he's really cute, and i like him a little. without making it seem obvious what are someways that i could drop hints like flirting or things to say.
thanks a TON.
mwahhh xo
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homecomeing
Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 7:32 pm
our homecomeing dance is next friday. well my ex b/f asked me to go with him. and to make a long story short: he cheated on me after about 2 yearsand we started talking and i think im not completely over him and i thin i likie him again. only i know i shuoldnt and stay away from him. but its just hard. well anyways, he goes to another school and i want to go with him but i dont think i should because i dont want to like him again. i mean, once a cheater always a cheater right? cause i know ill just get hurt again. so my question is should i go to homecoming with him or play it safe and stay away. and does anyone have any tips for getting over someone? any advice you can give is welcomed. thanks =]
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Whats Wrong
Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 7:24 pm
KK so...I ahd lots of crushes.....and 2day in school i was feeling sad.....because no boy has ever liked me.......and I dont know whats wrong....I dont think I did anything wrong and I think Im prety and have a good style!!!!!!!!
WHATS WRONG?????????????
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what should i do?
Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 7:12 pm
ok theres this guy who im like best friends with, and we're always playin around and saying stuff like, "oh how's my boo doing today" or something like that. only i like him as more than a friend and im not sure hell take me seriously or if he likes me back, what should i do?
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confused a little
Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 6:07 pm
ok. so there is this guy that has liked me since middle of last year. he had a gf but said he liked me more and stuff. he is a major player...but he treats me differently than the other girls. he treats his "flings" like dogs to their face, but he is like super sweet to me and always says how much he likes me and wants to get together. he walks me to class and told me today that his gf of 1 year broke up with them on their anniversary. i'm just worried that if i were to go out with him, he would just get what he wants and leave like everybody else. he doesn't have a good reputation, but he's just different when he's with me...what should i do?
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=(
Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 6:03 pm
17/f
alrighty so i was with this amazing guy like....amazing!! but i moved about 13 hours away *driving* and he said it can't work with us being so far away unless he comes out here for college or i go back there. i am completely hung up on him though! we've known eachother for 4 years and we were best friends too! he was my first kiss and real bf but it's so hard to try and make a long distance relationship work, even though we both care about each other a lot. *i'm nearly already part of his family. his parents are like my 2nd mom and dad, and his sis, who is 22, was already sayin i was her sis-in-law and stuff lol* i just don't know what to do and if there is any way that we can make things work!! help me please!!
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umm............. wow he's cute!!!!!!!
Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 4:27 pm
i just started liking this boy 2 day and i think he likes me 2 he kept touching me and he asked me did i think he was cute i said yeah. can you give me more flirting tips but not intense flirting just 2 get the message across that i like him 2.
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any teenage mums out there....
Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 1:37 pm
this is mainly to teenage mums.
im 17 years old and me and my boyfriend both really want a baby. i am attending a 2 year college course and have decided if we do conseve i will home study. not a problem.
me and my boyfriend are very happy and it looks like we will b 2gether 4 a very long time.
it all started when we had the little scare that i could be pregnant. we thought about it and spoke about it and we both decided we want one. weve figured out everything we will do, wont do and which needs to be done. so we thought it though alot.
so i ask those teen mums what it is like to have a child and how old you was when you had you first. even though i do understand it will be hard but im willing to put in all the ...
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Posted Tuesday September 19 2006, 12:31 pm
how do you know if a girl is checking you out
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