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A complex situation


Question Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 5:54 am

I have been dating this girl for about 4 months now. We were friends for the past two years though. She went through this horrible breakup with her ex-boyfriend and a major debacle with one of her best friends. She says she loves me, but at times it is like I don't exist or even matter to her anymore. I try to be nice you know, but still she has to be mean to me. I admit I am to blame because I put "words in her mouth." Only because I don't know how she feels about me. I don't know what she thinks of me anymore. I feel unloved. That and she won't be "exclusive" with me. I know she believes it's something that can wait till marriage but it hurts. It really hurts inside at the fact that she went out with another guy. What kind of love is that? I love you but I am going out with so and so tonight. I don't know whether or not to think this love is real or even real to begin with. I just she told me the honest truth and stop leading me on and putting through this pain and misery. I know love is supposed to hurt but not like this. What should I do?

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inuyasha633 answered Wednesday September 20 2006, 3:44 pm:
i would break up wiht her.....i know it will hurt, but it sounds to me that shes useing your....it's like what happened to one of my ex's. she cheated on me...but i got over it, and found someone i really love, and they really love me back...so dump her and find someone better, you seem like a nice person and you don't desever this

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