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Friend trouble
Please help! My best friend has all of a sudden since she got back from her clubbing holiday started seeing this guy. I know he isnt right and his family do drugs and it wouldnt suprise me if he did aswell, my friend doesnt see any wrong in him and is going on dates with him thinking hes 'sweet' and caring. Im not jealous its just since she came back from her holiday she still acts like shes in ibiza, trying to get with all the guys. I dont know what to think/to do. your advice please... thank you!!
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I think the best thing to do is support her in what she feels. You can tell her that you are worried about her and to be careful but don't tell her what to do. She will eventually see something different in this guy she's seeing and end up breaking it off with him. You will have to be ready to be her rock. Eventually she will also get bored of her party life and go back to her normal ways.
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Only you can knock some sence into her. You her best friend if she'll listen to anyone it'll be you. If that doesn't work don't but in until you know all your facts for sure. And if you assumptions are true still don't don't but. Keep an eye on her though. If you notice she is starting to do really bad things then you should talk to her parents
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Hmmm...a clubbing holiday in ibiza? Never heard of that one. She sounds like she is not thinking of the consequences of partying around and hanging out with druggies. She may have to learn the hard way, poor thing. Anyway, protect yourself from being around the same scene and know that you can be her friend without being her savior. People sometimes want to go on that ride without hearing the warnings. Your best bet is to live what you know is good for you and don't fall into her bad habits. Don't preach at her, but don't ignore the dangerous behavior. Tell her that you have concerns and hope that she is being careful, because she is a valuable friend and you worry about her.
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