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homecomeing
our homecomeing dance is next friday. well my ex b/f asked me to go with him. and to make a long story short: he cheated on me after about 2 yearsand we started talking and i think im not completely over him and i thin i likie him again. only i know i shuoldnt and stay away from him. but its just hard. well anyways, he goes to another school and i want to go with him but i dont think i should because i dont want to like him again. i mean, once a cheater always a cheater right? cause i know ill just get hurt again. so my question is should i go to homecoming with him or play it safe and stay away. and does anyone have any tips for getting over someone? any advice you can give is welcomed. thanks =]
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maybe you can go with him strictly as friends. i know it's niether extreme and kind of piontless but maybe you need to start talking and trusting him agian. but just be friends if you don't want to fall head otver heels just to get your heart broken. let him know that he hurt you but you want to patch things up...platonicly. maybe you can date agian if he's trustworthy and all but not right away. it was stupid to do hat he did but don't swear him off right away. i like the saying "everyone deserves a second chance" better than "once a cheater always a cheater".
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From what you've written, the message that I'm getting is that your ex-boyfriend asked you to go to the homecoming dance with him, but not to get into a relationship again. If you've already broken up with him because he cheated on you, best idea is to NOT get into another relationship with him again. Some guys have a nasty habit of recurring infidelity that will only get you into a horrible mess. If you plan to go with him to your homecoming dance, go only as friends. He's not asking you to be his girlfriend again, just to be his date to a dance. It's up to your own discretion to decide whether or not to give him that second chance.
Good Luck
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