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Confusedd
So theres this guy I really like named Adrian.
Hes wicked funny and nice.
We talk all the time and share some of the same intrest.
But anyway..
yesterday he told me that we could only be friends and we will never be more.
That I shouldn't like him anyway cause
I need someone who is nice,happy, and cool.
But even though he says he doesnt like me
he still acts like he does.
Like in Chorus he looks over at me all the time
&& he flirts with me and ughh
I dont know what to think,
im so confuseedd.
HELP PLEASE!
Thanksss :]
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Well, first of all, he told you that he just wanted to be friends. If he said that, he more than likely means it. So, either way, you're going to have to repect that. I know that's not what you want to hear, but it's true.
Have you seen him around other girls? He could just have a flirtatious personality. Some guys are like that; I know a few who are.
I think that you should move on. I know rejection is hard (believe me, I've experienced it many times), but you pull through it and find someone even better.
Don't dwell on it to much. Talk to people you trust about it, to vent or get advice. Take up a new hobby. Spend time with loved ones.
I'm sorry that he doesn't feel the same way about you. But, it means you'll find someone even better. I promise. :oD
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave another one in my inbox!
-Manders
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Well this is a toughie. Guys can be very confusing can't they? He says you need someone nice happy and cool, so maybe he doesn't think he's good enough for you. Maybe he really likes you as a friend but just isn't attracted to you in a romantic way, but maybe a fun flirty friends with benefits way. I really don't know what he's thinking but in my expeirience just go up to him and straight up tell him you like him and want to be more than friends, but its apparant he doesn't think it would be a good idea, and ask him why he flirts with you all the time if he doesn't have feelings for you. It's never fun to hear someone you like doesn't like you back but sometimes guys say they don't because they think you might reject them, but they honestly do like you. Your best bet is to just ask him and find out :] If you need any more advice just drop another one in my inbox :] Hope i helped.
♥ Shelby
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Well there's two ways to think of this.
He either likes you, but he's just pretending to not because he doesn't know how you feel about him, and he's embarassed about it.
OR.
He's just being a guy. Alot of guys just think they're being friendly with girls when to girls it comes off as they're flirting, they like them, etc. Yeah, it is really confusing isn't it?
But, I really do think he just wants to remain friends with you, because I don't think any guy that liked a girl would be flat out "we're never going to be together like that."
I hope I helped.
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well maybe he just isnt ready to tell you how he feels yet or he doesnt want a relationshipt at the moment but if its really bugging you then why dont you just talk to him and ask him say something like ive been realising some stuff but i dont know maybe im wrong he will have to ask you what stuff just say some stuff you realise and talk it over there i hope i helped and tell me how it goes good luck! xxxx
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Well I think you should still give it a shot.
Keep persisting with it, and tell him that YOU DO think that he's nice, happy, and cool. Tell him that you WANT to date him because of who he is...and what he says wont change that.
Maybe also ask him if he still likes you...
be very blunt about it.
If he says yes,
then say.. "well why cant we date then? it's what we both want."
let him know you're willing to make sacrifices if he is.
:)
hope this helped.
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Chances are he DOES like you. He's probably trying to compliment you by saying you're too good for him. Boys are weird like that. I wouldn't give up so easily. [:
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Well I think that he does like you. Boys seem to play a little game with girls. Trust me i know I have a twin brother. So what they do is say they dont like you because they want to be your friend first before it gets akward does that make sence? well i hope so. Anyway I would continue to flirt a little and just get to be his friend a little more 9 out of 10 times the guy will ask the girl out when they fell that there is a strong friendship. Just hang in there. Im always here and always listening!! GOOD LUCK!! *Follow your heart* Americangirl <3
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