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I think I am depressed


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 7:00 pm

I am a 13 year old girl, and I think that I'm depressed. I have a very loving family, although my brother and I don't always get along. I am in middle school. I believe that I started getting depressed about midway through 6th grade. My school is an arts school, so you can express yourself. But, I just don't find any joy in life. My symptoms: I am sluggish and tired a lot, I am not confident with my body, things that I used to enjoy I don't now, I sleep a lot, I can't find joy in life, and I believe I cause problems for people. I do smile and laugh often, but when I think about it, the moments are just dull. Does anybody know what I should do?

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is FIVERR a scam? will they scam me out of my money?


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:50 pm

I found this online thing where you can post ads for what you'll do for $5. I am totally down for that because I NEED MORE MONEY. I think I can do a lot of things on the Fiverr site thing but I'm afraid it's a scam and they'll like take money from me or not pay me right or something. Is Fiverr a scam or no? I only wanna do safe online work where i will really get paid. it's just www.fiverr.com

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Cure an ear ache fast?


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:47 pm

Is there a fast cure for an ear ache? I woke up and my ear is really bugging me today. It wasn't hurting yesterday and I don't think I did anything to it. I don't wanna go to the docotors for this. Is there a way to cure an earache? THANKSSS

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How many abortions can you have?


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:46 pm

I know this girl at school. She sleeps around a lot and I know she's had at least two abortions since we've been in high school together. I was talking to one of my best friends and she said she heard the girl had 4 abortions total since she was 13 and that her parents paid for them so she wouldn't have a baby so young. I don't know about that. 4 sounds like a lot. I know she told people (including me and a teacher) before about having at least 2 but I think there is probably like a limit to how many abortions a person can have. Is there?

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Is Splenda Bad for You?


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:43 pm

I know sugar is real bad for you and can make you fat and sluggish. I am trying to lose weight and been using SPLENDA sweetener. I like the sweetner personally. My Mom told me today she won't buy me any more Splenda though because it is artificial or something and it is toxic. I don't know what she's talking about. THE STORE SELLS IT. If it was bad it wouldn't be on shelves right? Is it bad or not? I want to show my mom it isn't harmful so she will buy it for me for my diet.

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Is a blowjob considered cheating?


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:39 pm

If you give head to a guy at a party while your boyfriend is not there does that mean you cheated on your boyfriend? Yeah, the guy was really hot but it's not like we had sex or anything. I didn't even let him finger me! My boyfriend is really pissed and won't talk to me now but I really can't see his reasoning or point of view. I've done this a few times before but I haven't told him about it and regret telling him this time. Do you think giving a blow job is REALLY cheating? I mean, come on...it's like...kissing...sort of...I don't see a problem.

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A Not-So-Uncomplicated Situation?


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:38 pm

Okay, so i have a loooot of thinking to do on a subject. I'd really appreciate some help with this!

Let's say I dated a guy for 2 months(this summer). But, we both knew he was moving. So as you can tell, we weren't really a "serious" relationship (more like good friends with benefits). He was absolutely positive he wanted to break up with me from the get-go. Now with that said, you'd probably wonder why I'd even be with him- and I can just say, it was a light,fun fling kind of thing. In my opinion, his way of relationships was not how I'd view one. So now that he's moved, we've broken up, agreed to stay friends, blah blah blah. As you can see we're both not hurt by it at all. Now here's the thing. For awhile now, I...

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Used a condom AND birth control pills but now I'm pregnant?!


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:33 pm

I've been dating My boyfriend for awhile. We always use condoms when We have sex. Always. I started on birth control pills about like maybe 6 or 7 months ago now. I always take them on time no matter what. I'm not stupid. My boyfriend and I had sex last month like usual. We used a condom every time and everything. Neither of Us thought any of the condoms We had used broke or busted or tore or whatever you call it. We had no cause to think I could get pregnant.

My period was late. I took a pregnancy test and it said + positive for pregnancy. I didn't have sex with anybody else. I read these things don't lie. Is this for real though? I mean, is it really possible to get pregnant when using birth control pills AND condoms? I mean WTF. Should I take another test or see a doctor?

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(long question(please answer!) My Mothers sex opinion


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:30 pm

I am 13, and sexually active. DONT tell me off, becuase its MY life. I do use condoms, and I have only had sex with my current boyfriend, whom i have no intention of breaking up with. We love eachother very much, have a very healthy relationship (my mom agrees!), and sex was a wanted mutual agreement. I would like to tell my mom, because she thinks I tell her everything, but she says she would sign custody of me over to my strict Aunt if I lost my virginity (she would like me to wait until im married!!). She also says that its my life and one way or another, im going to do what I want, i just have to deal with the consequences, one of which being the Aunt issue (technically, thats saying i DONT have a choice). I dont know what I should do, ...

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Should I Wear Nail Polish to a Job Interview?


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:26 pm

I am going for another job interview tomorrow. I was laid off last month and things got tough so I had to come back and stay with my mom until I can get another job. Anyway, I had my outfit laid out and asked my mom what she thought of it. She said it looked very professional for the job and that I'd look great. Then she said I should take my nail polish off before the interview to look more serious about the job. My nail polish is pink right now. Is it inappropriate to have painted nails with nailpolish when showing up for an interview?

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i wanna leave for college


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:18 pm

19/f. i wnated to leave for college when i graduated from high school but due to a series of events that would take to long to write, i stayed here and i'm living at home. i attend a university, not community college, so there are dorms and stuff and it's like a real university with events and so on. but, i can't live at home anymore. i'm up to my last nerve. I can't move out. I live in Miami and everything here is really expensive. Like a one bedroom apartment is 1200 dollars. and my mom won't let me room with anyone if it's not in school. i want to leave and i need my mom to let me go... or at least be ok with going, because i know i'm an adult but i still don't want to go without her blessing.

please help




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Girls - What do you think of this?


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:01 pm

Hey.. I'm just wondering what girls would think about this. I have an odd but harmless fetish but I'm terrified to tell my gf or anyone else. The fetish is called WAM, I like to see girls who are dressed up wearing nice clothes with makeup/hair done nicely get messy, like with pies, cake batter, chocolate, nickelodeon-style green slime, etc. All fully clothed, I hate when it is mixed with nudity although some other people like it that way. What would you think if your bf told you that? Would you do it with him if he would pay for new clothes or for your clothes to be cleaned?

Thanks, hopefully you don't think I'm totally crazy. Believe me otherwise I'm a normal guy.


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am i wrong for this


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:00 pm

Iv been with my common law wife for 6 years and we had a good sex life up untill the last past year and now no sex no cuddling no nothing and its driving me crazzy I asked her what was wrong she told me it hurts for her to have sex yet she won't go see a doctor .so now I think about having sex with someone eles but not haven't done that yet .I love her to death but without sex I cannot do .I'm very high sex drivven think about it all the time but with her it just doesn't happen and I won't go on withou it .I don't consider myself selfish but I do have needs to be filled .so what do I do in this situation I have no clue but its making me deppresed and angery at the same time and masterbation is getting old its not the same as beeing close to...

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different backgrounds


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 5:59 pm

my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. i have met most of his family, he is american. his family is diverse, some asian and hispanic. my family is 100% indian. he has met my brother, sister, mom and dad. my dad is very strict on dating, he doesnt like it but he cant stop me from dating because im almost 21. and my boyfriend is 22. my mom likes my boyfriend though. the issue is we have been on and off in our relationship and i dont think my parents think ill marry him so they are a bit concerned with that aspect. his family is huge on christmas, my family doesnt do christmas. my family cant even have dinner with his family because my parents refuse to. i know theres no way to fix this. lets say we do get married, then yes my pare...

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Doctor issue!


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 2:49 pm

So I was going to finally get help on my depression. I was looking up my doctor's phone number online when a familiar site showed up again. Each doctor has their own page and people post comments and rate their doctor on various things.

There's only one good comment of course and 6 bad ones about him and look at the most recent one:

I found the man arrogant, opinionated and judgmental. I went to him for help with depression over a 2 year period and felt worse about myself than I ever did. It turns out he misdiagnosed me and had me on medication that I was barely able to get through each day. When I said anything he didn't like to hear he had temper tantrums that scared the hell out of me. Calls himself a Christ...

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My so called best friend


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 2:46 pm

18/f my so called best friend Skylar is a huge liar. Like she'll go somewhere with her Friends, and tell me she was babysitting. She did something horrible last year, she pretended to be someone and told this girls boyfriend that she was cheating on him and stuff like that. She is just such a liar. She is fun to be with. But I saw her in school
today and I couldn't even look at her. I'm so angry and I just don't know What to do. I haven't texted her Nd she hasn't texted me. If she texts me I know it's going to
be so hard not to say anything. I know she knows Im mad because I heard she was talking about me. She leaves me
out of things and obviously doesn't think of
me the same. Wha should I do?

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how i can get birth control without my family knowing?


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 2:15 pm

14/f

I am wondering how i can get birth control without my family knowing. Also obviously I can not drive yet. I want birth control for two reasons, one to reduce my period because I have to change a super tampon every 2-1/2 hours and also, if I might want to lose my virginity at some point. I just wanna be extra safe against stds and pregnancy. can you please help me? Its urgent.

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Is it really wrong


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 1:35 pm

So there's this guy i use to date 3 years ago which was my first love and a year after me and his brother started talking and now i really like his brother. would it be wrong for me to date his brother?

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HELP ME PLEASE Should I be honest with my mom?


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 9:54 am

So I was chatting online with my friend about drinking and stuff cause I was getting red spots after getting drunk. We were talking about vodka and stuff then I went to the bathroom. When I came back, my mom was in front of the laptop. When I was trying to say "wait", she just had a straight face. I think she read our chat. So now I'm really scared. I don't know what to do. Should I tell her? HELP ME PLEASE.:(

xoxo,
J
16/f

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what are the minerals needed by the plant and its corresponding function?


Posted Monday August 30 2010, 7:38 am

what are the minerals needed by the plants and its corresponding function?




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