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Girls - What do you think of this?


Question Posted Monday August 30 2010, 6:01 pm

Hey.. I'm just wondering what girls would think about this. I have an odd but harmless fetish but I'm terrified to tell my gf or anyone else. The fetish is called WAM, I like to see girls who are dressed up wearing nice clothes with makeup/hair done nicely get messy, like with pies, cake batter, chocolate, nickelodeon-style green slime, etc. All fully clothed, I hate when it is mixed with nudity although some other people like it that way. What would you think if your bf told you that? Would you do it with him if he would pay for new clothes or for your clothes to be cleaned?

Thanks, hopefully you don't think I'm totally crazy. Believe me otherwise I'm a normal guy.


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noellee answered Saturday September 4 2010, 1:44 am:
I'd probably be a little creeped out if a guy told me this on the first-fourth date. But after a while, when we've become comfortable with each other and have had sex, I'd probably be more open to creative things. Your fetish actually seems like fun. Definitely something I've never tried before, but very interesting indeed.

There are a lot weirder fetishes than this, so I don't think you're unusual at all.

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quazzie answered Tuesday August 31 2010, 3:59 am:
Haha no way is that crazy!

Actually to be honest it sounds kinda cute (really fun) and I would definitely be in for it.

Granted it's not exactly something you tell a girl you just meet, but if your girlfriend and you have been going out for a while I don't see why she wouldn't do it.

I'd go for it. It's not weird at all. :D

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NinjaNeer answered Monday August 30 2010, 9:05 pm:
Let's put it this way... it's not the sort of thing that you bring out on the third date.

When you're deep into a relationship, your girlfriend will be a lot more open-minded when it comes to fulfilling fetish-related fantasies. She may be confused or weirded out at first, but something harmless like this might be okay.

However, you may run into girls who don't want any part. That's when you just back off politely and keep it in your mind :)

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SandyDandy answered Monday August 30 2010, 9:04 pm:
I don't think you're crazy at all! How could you think that? People have different fetish's yours is not bad at all. It's actually really normal, other people have actual weird one's but it's normal to have desires like that, i mean to each their own!
And i think you should definitely tell your girlfriend i mean don't go around and tell everyone your fetish! But i'm sure you're girlfriend would accept it if she's really a good person. And if she is not, Then look for someone who will love you and accept you for who you are:]!

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