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friends or more?
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 8:17 pm
So there is this guy I know and we both kinda like each other but I don't know what to do. We've hung out a couple times but not much since he doesn't live close to me. We used to talk a lot, like text messages and AIM and stuff but lately we haven't talked much. Just yesterday he brought one of his friends to my friends house so they could see each other and he didn't even say hi to me or anything. We were all hanging outfor an hour or so and he kept saying was he wanted to go outside and he wanted to leave the room, very vague. I guess he wanted me to go with him because later that night, he had asked why I didn't go. I thought it was odd and he didn't like me. But now we're kind of talking again. I really want to be more but I just don't know. What should I do?
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ex is not stepping up
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 7:53 pm
I just got back together with my ex. He's the only guy I've ever loved & we have so many memories together. The problem is, he's not acting the way he did before when he was my boyfriend. Our relationship back then was the kind people are jealous of, but now it seems like he doesn't want it to be as serious. He barely calls and comes to see me, but I stand my ground and act like I don't care. He's the one that was begging for me back! I don't even know if I call this a relationship, but I want to confront him & ask what's going on. How should I go about doing this? (18/f)
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sex at 14! good or bad?? help me
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 6:38 pm
yeah I ihave a new bf!
I love him a lot. and the other day were talking and he brought up the subject of how far have you ever gona with a guy. I told him just making out!
and he is 16.I am 14!
but I would expect him to e more mature but he has had a blow job hand job and been with a girl naked but didnt have sex. I love him like he loves me!
we met at an amusement park[knotts berry farm]
and we hav been going out for a week! but have been friends longer! so i am not a slut!
I felt a little jealous when he tole me that a girl did that and beat me to it!
well the thing that sucks is i am going with him to a party on saturday and his dad heard a rumor of him getting a girl pregnant so h...
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i cant believe this
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 6:07 pm
okay i rele like this guy. so i asked him to the dance. well jhe sed no. and he wants to go with mi best friend! im rele upset. and i dont kno wut to do
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stupid boyfriend
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 5:56 pm
so this weekend my boyfriend stayed over lets call him dave. earlier on friday dave recieved a myspace message from this girl from his school saying i think we should talk in person or something like that he wrote back why .. then he got a little drunk and read her message why not and wrote we should hookup. he didnt tell me she wrote back or that he responded i found out when she wrote back to his (i sent her one saying because i have a gf) she wrote back saying does your gf have ur myspace password because i got 2 messages. he said he doesnt remember writing that to her but im not sure what to do .. its basically like he just told some girl he would cheat on me!! please help
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What am i waiting for?
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 5:55 pm
Is it weird that i am 13 and i still never had my first kiss or boyfriend ever in my life? i think i'm like the only person in my SCHOOL that never had a boyfriend. i always like all these guys but i never tell them because i am scared and i don't want to get hurt. but i don't want to be like most of my friends that go out with a different guy every week. i've had some many guys ask me out before but i always so no, i don't know why. i even said no to this guy i liked for a very long time. i' just don't want to get hurt. i always wanted my first boyfriend, kiss, date or whatever to be with someone that i will always remember. my best friend doesn't even remmeber her first kiss, and i don't want that to happen to me. i need advice to make me feel better about this.
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Break-up/closure/get back together?
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 5:22 pm
my b.f and i just broke up and hes been telling my best friend that he has regrets and wants me back. i really love him and i knw he does too...and its only been a 4 days since we broke up. if i do decide to go get back together with him...or how should i talk to him..i mean he has to knw he cant just come back when he wants but i dunno (you know what i mean?)what should i do...?he hasnt spoken to me yet, but everytime i go on msn he comes online like 2 secs later and he changes his name to reflect to me but he wont talk to me..and i dont knw wat to do! help
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Who Broke up With Who?
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 5:18 pm
Ok I need help deciding something....me and b.f broke up after 6 months well i think we did, and i cant tell who broke up with who...so heres how it went...
the night b4 we had a fight..so the next morning i get a text asking.."so is this is? is it over?" i answered only if you want it to be. and then i called him later and we spoke and i asked him to you want to break up and he was like "i dunno im in the middle" and i was like "you cant be in the middle you either want to or not" and i was like wats wrong? and he said he was bored...so i said well theres ur answer..lets just end it..there was a pause from him and then he said ok. and then we said goodbye...
i have no idea who really broke up with who? wat do you think..?
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i really really wanna make it work
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 5:04 pm
kevin broke up with me like 2 weeks ago it was a three day relationship but i did not want it 2 end i was being 2 shy and i know that i wish i could go back in time and change that kevin still talks 2 me and hugs me and daps me off and tries 2 be nice 2 my friends but i dont know if he still likes me and he even told some otha gurlz we still went out wen they asked me all i did is smile really big and walk away i dont kno if i shoulda did that but i really wanna go back out with him
Break up speech
well i think we shold be friends cuz its not working out we should try 2 make it work some other time
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Posted Monday October 23 2006, 4:57 pm
so my boyfriend of 8 1/2 months frequently makes plans with me, and then blows me off without so much as a call. and were really good besides that one thing. and hes said in the past when we fought about it and broke up that he knows he fucked up. but he did it again last weekend. so i confronted him on it and his reply was :
"you get so pissed off when some little thing doesnt go your way you might want to get use to it cuz its gunna happen all your life your the only person i know that doesnt accept it"
im so mad at him i dont even know what to do. were fighting, not talking, and he's avoiding me. i dont wanna lose him. ive liked him for so long. ive loved him the whole tim ei was with him...
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I wanna know if I'm rreally in love.
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 4:35 pm
Well I am 15 and in highschool. I've been with my boyfriend a little over 7 months. In the way beginning when we first met... we had minni crushes on eachother...and when we were about to get closer a girl got in between and he liked her... that didn't work out so it was about us again. Then another girl came in between and he actually went out with her. When that didn't work out it was about us again. I don't know why i kept going back to him but it ended up with us going out. I felt like a rebound for the longest time but i just really liked him. Now he tells me how he can never be attracted to anyone and he truly loves me. He thinks we will actually get married and what not. I on the other hand don't think so we are only in highschool. I...
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the next step
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 1:39 pm
ok so i have been going out wiht my new girlfriend for about 2 mouths now and i want to know a couple of things
1. on avrage how long do people wait to have sex
2. should we celabrit things like 1 mouth annaverys and if we do, how long do we do that untill it's to only a one year annavery?
3. she's a little new at haveing a boyfriend, she is my forth girlfriend, and i just want to know is there a way to make her more confuable with being around me, she already really cares about me and trust me,
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Am I a lesbian?
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 10:33 am
How do i know if I'm a lesbian? i have a really close friend who's a lesbian, and I know she likes me because she kissed me one. Then I kinda freaked out because I was so sure I couldn't be a lesbian. But now my boyfriend and I broke up and I'm really attracted to her. Like, I am a slut, I'll admit it, but lately i am not into the guys. They are so boring. Maybe I'm just looking for something new and different? All i know for sure is that lately I suddenly get the urges to do sexual things to my friend. grab her boobs, touch her pussy, whatever. So, I guess I'm a lesbian. I just don't seem to like guys anymore much, if at all.
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jealousy ?
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 2:37 am
well my bestfriend moved here to long island last year from upstate, and ive been introducing her to my friends ever since then & recently i introuduced her to this kid phil that i have a really big crush on, and them 2 flirt all the time but she has a boyfriend yet, she hooks up with my close friend steven. and i told her i liked phil & shes like i dont have any intrest in him at all but the hole thing is, is that it seems like both of the are flirting constanly & she was trying to hook me up with phil & he said he doesnt like me & im not his type, but my friend steve said he would hook up with me if jiggs wasnt there because supposivly he likes me & i dont know what to do. and like whenever im with melissa & ph...
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Really upset!!
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 1:15 am
this is what my boyfriend just sent to me.. heres the convo between me and him..
i\'m sorry its sooo long but please read because im soo desperate!!
him: ive been thinking alot.......ive been unhappy you have been unhappy....im done being shit one in this relationship and done being taken for granted.....it just seems every time we see each other or talk were fighting and i dont want to be misrable any more you really have no idea what you have until its gone.if you keep doing what you are doing to me we are not going to last...if you do your not only gunna lose me but lose any chance of being friend after also.what im trying to say is....i think we need to take a break and see how muchi really mean to.i love y...
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Posted Monday October 23 2006, 12:31 am
okk...so i'm a Christian and i know the Bible says not to like go out with the same sex..and stuff but i like another girl and i don't know how this happened!!!! Soo..I'm not a lesbian i only like one girl am I gonna go to hell or anything??
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Okay to have a first date?
Posted Monday October 23 2006, 12:02 am
13/F
Is it ok to not know if you like your guy friend or not, and then go on a date? Just to see if it works out. If not, is it okay to say no to a second date?
Thanks!
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teeth alignment
Posted Sunday October 22 2006, 10:50 pm
okay so this definately has nothing to do with my love life, but i didnt know what column to put it in, so i just put it in the one i thought most people would look at!! does anybody know anything about teeth alignment? like how much it costs, do they put you to sleep during the process, etc. Or could you give me some sites?
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i like him...
Posted Sunday October 22 2006, 9:26 pm
ok im in the 8th grade and i have liked this guy since i was in the 5th grade but i havent been able to tell him. i get really nervous when he is around and everything. one reason why i havent told him is because he is VERY popular and im not really that popular. anyway im afraid that he will say no then tell all his friends. i dont know if he likes me or not. he smiles when i talk to him and i catch him looking at me alot but i dont know if that is enough to say he likes me. so what do i do??? i am soo confused and lost. please help.
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Liking him a whole lot
Posted Sunday October 22 2006, 9:10 pm
Well recently i went to this church event and this guy in my youth group was talking to me a whole lot the entire night. Im not able to go to youth group every wednesday night because of work but when i do get the chance to go he is always like heyy i havent seen you in forever how have you been?! At this event he came and sat right next to me and started to talk to me. Or i was sitting down and he was standing behind me and he like leaned his head over and was like heyyy.
Now yes it hasnt been long since i started to like him kinda.Maybe like 2weeks.
Now heres the problem hes 15and a sophmore in highschool and Ill be 18 this week and a senior in highschool.
Its not an actually question but i n...
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