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Question Posted Monday October 23 2006, 1:39 pm

ok so i have been going out wiht my new girlfriend for about 2 mouths now and i want to know a couple of things
1. on avrage how long do people wait to have sex
2. should we celabrit things like 1 mouth annaverys and if we do, how long do we do that untill it's to only a one year annavery?
3. she's a little new at haveing a boyfriend, she is my forth girlfriend, and i just want to know is there a way to make her more confuable with being around me, she already really cares about me and trust me,



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Additional info, added Tuesday October 24 2006, 9:34 am:
4. and what about pet names? i'm confued on them, like how do you pick one?.

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karisue answered Monday October 23 2006, 6:20 pm:
[one] wait until you are ready to have sex
[two] it's cute to just tell her happy anniversary, yet on myabe your 6th month(1/2 year) maybe you guys should go out, and celebrate your 1 year, thats always the most precious <33
[three] just talk to her, make her feel special, listen to her when she tells you things so she'll know you really care. & most of all, try your best to not fight with her, thats a big mistake.

good luck with it =]

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×Me× answered Monday October 23 2006, 6:05 pm:
wait until u all are married

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bijougirl4 answered Monday October 23 2006, 4:54 pm:
you should never have sex before marriage. thats my opinion. but try to figure out everything she likes and start up conversations she can get into.

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BitsandPieces answered Monday October 23 2006, 4:43 pm:
There is no average, that I am aware of or that matters. Sex is up to the two consenting adults. Basically if you want it now, you have to wait until she wants it as much as you do. This may be never, so if this is all you want from the relationship or a deal-breaker, better to find out now. You should celebrate whatever and whenever you want to. Again, it is not romantic to go by an exact formula, but I don't know of any girls that ever got mad over a thoughtful gift or gesture. If you want her to stay comfortable around you, than don't do anything to rush her or pressure her. You need to let her set the speed of the physical relationship to what she wants. Communication is craved by the female gender, so open up and talk to her. Ask her what she thinks is romantic, what her favorite love movie is and why and find out what makes her heart skip a beat. Every girl is different in exactly what she expects and wants, so don't rely on too many stereotypes, find out from her what her individual preferences are and she will appreciate the time and care you take in getting to really know her.

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MIss_Diva answered Monday October 23 2006, 4:36 pm:
1)WAIT till your BOTH ready to have sex, to make sure you both trust each other and very comfortable with each other.

2)Well every now adn then just out of the blue give her a gift,card,candy,be romantic to keep your realtionship spontanious and fun.

3)Let her do that on her own and make her feel special and show that you care and you can be dependable.

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xoiiloveyou143xo answered Monday October 23 2006, 4:17 pm:
1-Everyone is different about sex. You should wait until she is ready to have sex.
2-My boyfriend and I don't really celebrate the little anniversaries. Sometimes we will surprise each other with little thoughtful gifts, but nothing major.
3-You just have to give her time to get comfortable with you. You just have to show her that you really care about her.

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