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Really upset!!
this is what my boyfriend just sent to me.. heres the convo between me and him..
i\'m sorry its sooo long but please read because im soo desperate!!
him: ive been thinking alot.......ive been unhappy you have been unhappy....im done being shit one in this relationship and done being taken for granted.....it just seems every time we see each other or talk were fighting and i dont want to be misrable any more you really have no idea what you have until its gone.if you keep doing what you are doing to me we are not going to last...if you do your not only gunna lose me but lose any chance of being friend after also.what im trying to say is....i think we need to take a break and see how muchi really mean to.i love you and this hurts but i cant keep hurting.
me: wow.. you f****ng liar. you dont love me.. annnd you broke every f****ing promise.. you get what u want.. and you'll see what u had.. key word. had
ok blah blah blah and then we decided we\'re still together and then he kept trying to hurt me by saying its all my fault and he wishes he could just forget me and my name and all that sh*t. but i kept saying like \"whatever happens happens and if we\'re meant to be together we\'ll be together and that he has his own opinion.\" so then he said well\" im so done with you\" and he doesnt know if he wants to ever get back with me
sooo my 2 questions are!!
1) what should i do? like what should i say and act around him.
2) how can i get over him and make it seem like im not hurt and how can i change.. i have an attitude, im clingy, and im jealous..
please help!!
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I am so happy that you are taking some responsibility in this break-up and see some areas that you can improve on for the future. Having that positive attitude will help you in your dating for years to come. Sounds like your guy was sick of the fighting and jeolousy most likely. Guys hate being attacked on a regular basis and will give up a girlfriend when she becomes a clingy nag. I don't know the whole problem with the attitude, but it probably has something to do with your frustration in not being heard and understood. This is definately not your fault entirely. Every relationship has challenges because nobody is perfect, but we all want a perfect partner. Mostly guys are not as invested as the girls and will not want to endure heavy relationship garbage that the girls want to work on endlessly. If you want to try to get back with this guy, first you have to give him space. Next, you have to commit yourself to not reacting to everything as you did before. You can have feelings that are similar, but it is important that you are calm and not hostile in your verbal dialogue with him. For now, keep your dignity and don't be a typical mad ex-girlfriend. Be nice and polite, but maintain a good distance until he seeks you out. If you are really done with him, still be kind, because other guys are watching you, too!
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honestly i dont think he loves you that much if he can treat you like shit and expect you to stick around and then second hes a jerk for being that f*cked up to you!! you need to forget him PRONTO
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Well by the sounds of it He has been a jerk to you trying to blame you for everything when It can't just be one person who ruins the relationship. If he was the greatest guy on the planet then you would be head over heels in love with him because he treats you right and you want to be treated. it seems like he hasn't and there fore the relationship hasn't worked. What you need to remember that you were living before the relationship and you can survive with out it. You are an incredible girl and you shouldn't change for anyone. There is someone in this world waiting for you. who is your perfect match, your soulmate. The person that you are supposed to spen the rest of your life with and by the sounds of it it isn't him. Now when you see him look like he doesn't matter, that you are doing fine without him. He will just want to play games with your mind and try to hurt you and the only way that he can do that to you is if you let him!!!! You don't need a man to make you complete and are better off without him because he is just making you confused and making you question yourself. you are amazing, you are incredible and you can be that amazing, incredible girl without HIM!You go girl. live life to the full and enjoy every moment!
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