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Hello. Im here to help people with their problems because I know what it is like to be so confused and have no one to talk to!
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Is it ok to not know if you like your guy friend or not, and then go on a date? Just to see if it works out. If not, is it okay to say no to a second date?
Thanks!
Sure it's fine go out and have some fun. If you don't want to go on a second date just tell the guy that you have a funner time with him when your just hanging out as friends he will understand and maybe even think the same way. email me how everything goes and If you need anymore advice just ask. I'll be here to give you advice on anything!
this is what my boyfriend just sent to me.. heres the convo between me and him..
i\'m sorry its sooo long but please read because im soo desperate!!
him: ive been thinking alot.......ive been unhappy you have been unhappy....im done being shit one in this relationship and done being taken for granted.....it just seems every time we see each other or talk were fighting and i dont want to be misrable any more you really have no idea what you have until its gone.if you keep doing what you are doing to me we are not going to last...if you do your not only gunna lose me but lose any chance of being friend after also.what im trying to say is....i think we need to take a break and see how muchi really mean to.i love you and this hurts but i cant keep hurting.
me: wow.. you f****ng liar. you dont love me.. annnd you broke every f****ing promise.. you get what u want.. and you'll see what u had.. key word. had
ok blah blah blah and then we decided we\'re still together and then he kept trying to hurt me by saying its all my fault and he wishes he could just forget me and my name and all that sh*t. but i kept saying like \"whatever happens happens and if we\'re meant to be together we\'ll be together and that he has his own opinion.\" so then he said well\" im so done with you\" and he doesnt know if he wants to ever get back with me
sooo my 2 questions are!!
1) what should i do? like what should i say and act around him.
2) how can i get over him and make it seem like im not hurt and how can i change.. i have an attitude, im clingy, and im jealous..
please help!!
Well by the sounds of it He has been a jerk to you trying to blame you for everything when It can't just be one person who ruins the relationship. If he was the greatest guy on the planet then you would be head over heels in love with him because he treats you right and you want to be treated. it seems like he hasn't and there fore the relationship hasn't worked. What you need to remember that you were living before the relationship and you can survive with out it. You are an incredible girl and you shouldn't change for anyone. There is someone in this world waiting for you. who is your perfect match, your soulmate. The person that you are supposed to spen the rest of your life with and by the sounds of it it isn't him. Now when you see him look like he doesn't matter, that you are doing fine without him. He will just want to play games with your mind and try to hurt you and the only way that he can do that to you is if you let him!!!! You don't need a man to make you complete and are better off without him because he is just making you confused and making you question yourself. you are amazing, you are incredible and you can be that amazing, incredible girl without HIM!You go girl. live life to the full and enjoy every moment!
hi. i liked this boy for a long time so one day i told him that i liked him. to my surprise, he liked me back. but one day my friend sent me a conversation saying tat i was just a temporary girlfriend..tat he'd dump me wen he got a real girl-friend. i feel devestated. i'm gonna dump him soon but i can't bear it. i love him sooo much. i really dunno what to do...how do i get over him? please don't say boyfriend becuase i'm not ready for another one right now. please someone help me out! i just need someone to talk to...someone to give me advice. thankx a lot.
Do you know if you can trust your friend? She may want him for herself. But thats only a maybe. What you need to do is ask him if this is true before you dump him!I think you have to hear it from the person before you come to a conclusion or decision. If he does just think of you as a temporary girlfriend he isn't worth it. You deserve someone that thinks your an angel and would die without you and you shouldn't settle for second best!
I hope this advice will help you!
hey, im 16, gr. 12, crazy relationship wit this girl got more messed up and she gotta new bf, she wants to be friends stil cuz we were like best friends, so i cant do that cuz it hurts to hear or see her with him or her talk about it and stuff like that. itd be so easy if i never saw her but i see her everyday at school , shes even in some of my classes, i dont know wat to do, it hurts me to be around her but its killing me to be avoiding her.
Well what you need to do is tell her that your hurting but don't ignore her.You can never forget your past but if you learn from it you will be a better person. Right now she probably thinks that your fine with the break up so she acts like everything is back to normal. It does hurt to lose someone that you were really close to but you need to remember that even though it hurts theres someone better out there for you. Don't think that you were meant to be together forever because thats where you end up hurting more. She is just a taste or whats to come and you will grow from it.