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hi. i liked this boy for a long time so one day i told him that i liked him. to my surprise, he liked me back. but one day my friend sent me a conversation saying tat i was just a temporary girlfriend..tat he'd dump me wen he got a real girl-friend. i feel devestated. i'm gonna dump him soon but i can't bear it. i love him sooo much. i really dunno what to do...how do i get over him? please don't say boyfriend becuase i'm not ready for another one right now. please someone help me out! i just need someone to talk to...someone to give me advice. thankx a lot.
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I'd print out the conversation (I assume you're talking about a text conversation) and show it to him. See how he reacts. If he admits that it's his or if he denies it but you can tell he's lying, then tell him that you just became a lot more temporary than he probably expected, and show him your back. There's nothing like properly applied righteous anger to help you get over someone.
Then, just take life as it comes for a while. You don't need to go out with someone just to get over someone else.
There is also a chance that this conversation is a lie, in which case both of you need to find out who's trying to sabotage your relationship and why. If it is false, he should be as outraged as you are and insist on trying to find out who is spreading lies about him.
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Do you know if you can trust your friend? She may want him for herself. But thats only a maybe. What you need to do is ask him if this is true before you dump him!I think you have to hear it from the person before you come to a conclusion or decision. If he does just think of you as a temporary girlfriend he isn't worth it. You deserve someone that thinks your an angel and would die without you and you shouldn't settle for second best!
I hope this advice will help you!
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Okay, I say talk to him about & get his side of the story.
Say something like :
Hey, I've been hearing some rumors and I'm hoping they're not true. Please confirm they're not true.
Even if that sounds gay you can change it lol.
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Why don't you give him a taste of his own medicine and dump him as soon as you find someone better? Okay, I know you said not to say that, but seriously this guy needs to know that he's a major douchebag. Just make sure you look hellza pretty when you break up with him so he feels bad and regrets being such a manevolent bastard.
You deserve better than this guy, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise.
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