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should i avoid her? be friends?
hey, im 16, gr. 12, crazy relationship wit this girl got more messed up and she gotta new bf, she wants to be friends stil cuz we were like best friends, so i cant do that cuz it hurts to hear or see her with him or her talk about it and stuff like that. itd be so easy if i never saw her but i see her everyday at school , shes even in some of my classes, i dont know wat to do, it hurts me to be around her but its killing me to be avoiding her.
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Well what you need to do is tell her that your hurting but don't ignore her.You can never forget your past but if you learn from it you will be a better person. Right now she probably thinks that your fine with the break up so she acts like everything is back to normal. It does hurt to lose someone that you were really close to but you need to remember that even though it hurts theres someone better out there for you. Don't think that you were meant to be together forever because thats where you end up hurting more. She is just a taste or whats to come and you will grow from it.
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I know how you feel and the truth is that nothing can really help except to just let time do the mending. I doubt that you guys will ever be as close as you were before, but if you keep on working at staying friends with her, things should work out fine.
Just don't ignore her completely because girls hate it when guys do that after a relationship.
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