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Okay to have a first date?


Question Posted Monday October 23 2006, 12:02 am

13/F

Is it ok to not know if you like your guy friend or not, and then go on a date? Just to see if it works out. If not, is it okay to say no to a second date?

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karisue answered Monday October 23 2006, 6:30 pm:
of course it's okay.
thats the best part of finding out your true love, experience all the guys while you are young =]

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MelLeDisko answered Monday October 23 2006, 3:28 pm:
Ha, yeah, it's perfectly fine.

That's really what datings all about. People nowadays always think that if they like eachother, but don't know eachother, they should still instantly go out. Dating's easier because you're still single and can look for a guy you really DO want to date and will fit your qualities and have already gotten to know.

If they ask you out a second time for another date, just politely explain to them that you're sorry, and you had a great time and everything, but during the date, you sort of just felt friendly vibes between the two of you, and you hope you two can still be friends at least, and you really hope you two can do this again sometime ; but just as friends.

I hope I helped.

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clarayow answered Monday October 23 2006, 12:29 pm:
Haha. Yea it's perfectly fine. A date, to me, is just like trying to get to know a guy friend better and seeing if it's gonna work out fine after that date.

Don't worry bout it.

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spanny01 answered Monday October 23 2006, 3:33 am:
Sure it's fine go out and have some fun. If you don't want to go on a second date just tell the guy that you have a funner time with him when your just hanging out as friends he will understand and maybe even think the same way. email me how everything goes and If you need anymore advice just ask. I'll be here to give you advice on anything!

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bulldog answered Monday October 23 2006, 3:08 am:
that sounds reasonable to me. i say go for it.

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karenR answered Monday October 23 2006, 3:06 am:
That is a very good way to do it.
That is the way it is supposed to work.

It just seems these days that in order to go out with someone, people think they have to be a "couple". Not true at all.

So go out. If it just doesn't feel right, politely say that you want to stay friends but dating is just to weird! :)

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