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Question Posted Monday October 23 2006, 12:31 am

okk...so i'm a Christian and i know the Bible says not to like go out with the same sex..and stuff but i like another girl and i don't know how this happened!!!! Soo..I'm not a lesbian i only like one girl am I gonna go to hell or anything??

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MissBonne answered Wednesday October 25 2006, 4:22 am:
God is unchanging, he is the same God as he was back then, we have the same Word and the same power.

Actually, its completely normal for you to be daydreaming and appreciated beauty whether female or male.

As long as you don't act on those daydreams and direct your thoughts elsewhere (read a book, play a game), you'll grow out of this and move on to different things.

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×Me× answered Monday October 23 2006, 6:03 pm:
hun..yeah you will go to hell i am sorry to say that but jesus made us for one man and not the same sex so i think you need to get saved again and forget about the girl b/c you wont make it to heaven

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mariahwannabe answered Monday October 23 2006, 3:05 pm:
If you like another girl - you are kind of a lez but the important thing is even if it is against our gods ways, he will still love an forgive you.I am christain and we all know that going to confession is the only way

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Solemnstar answered Monday October 23 2006, 8:51 am:
I figure, The bible was written a very long time ago, God's view must have changed a little. Or,being that everyone sins, it should'nt be a problem if you like someone of the same gender. I think it's all a part of god's plan. there has to eb homosexuality, and people will diablities, and birth defects, and Transgenders, and all those other things people get worked up about. they exist, and god created them, so obviously, it must have been intentional.

I would'nt worry about it. I'd sort of start to worry about it if you put faith before personal happiness, if you decide you are a lesbian.

This comes up alot. in fact i read a story about a man who hated being gay, and went to god for help. god helped him, obviously.

I myself am not christian, nor very religious. I believe god exists, but that is my only view on faith.
Iwoudl say, live life for you, not for a god that may not exist.
But that is just me.

Solemnstar

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KaTiE_LyNn answered Monday October 23 2006, 8:06 am:
The fact that homosexuality is a sin was written in the Old Testament, which most people know is overruled by the New. But, it says in the NEW Testament that homosexuality is a sin, so it must be so. It says to stay away from certain things, and that is one of them. If you date someone of the same sex, you are sinning against God. We all sin, but if you live a life of sin, then God will judge you accordingly. It's either God or homosexuality. Not both.

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listening79mouth answered Monday October 23 2006, 6:35 am:
this is love, right? and God is love and he knows how to love. i think he'll understand your situation. go on as girl friends and be very careful not to change your girl being just because of her...

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bulldog answered Monday October 23 2006, 3:23 am:
the bible says that homosexuality is an abomination unto the lord. here's a short list of other things that the bible says are abominations;


shaving.
shrimp.
tattoos.
working on sundays.
polyester.
bunnies.
hamburger.
vegetable gardens.


most of the bible was written over 2000 years ago by men with their own agendas. if god is as understanding as the bible says im shure he'll love you no matter what. and besides, its not as if the thing about homosexuality was one of the ten comandments or anything.

(if any one was curious about that list, refer to the king james bible, Leviticus.)

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