Website: Dear Megii <3
Gender: Female
Age: 16
Member Since: September 12, 2006
Answers: 2
Last Update: September 12, 2006
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Okay well all us girls know how hard it is to get over a boy after he dumps us or just says he doesnt like us anymore, especially when it was super unexpected. so my questions are...
how do you get over them? besides getting another one. cause I can't get another one.
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Do you boys feel the same way? like if we ever did that to you? do you feel like crap for days on end? do you guys like obsess over it as we do?
Do you ever even miss us? or do you just move on right away cause you just thought we were attractive?
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There are many different ways to cope with your boyfriend loss. It kind of depends on what kind of person you are, or what makes you happy. Some girls like to sit at home, and watcin sad movies and be alone, while they cry til their eyes have gone dry. Others feel the need to get out, and HAVE FUN, or at least PRETEND to have fun. I suggest the second idea, rather than the first. He already upset you, dont let him get the best of you.. enjoy yourself, and show him you can do better without him. and im not a boy to answer the next two questions. But IM SURE they do get upset. they just have different ways of expressing it. In most guys cases, that would be NOT expressing it at all.. its not "cool" with the guys to be upset over a girl.
Hope i helped.
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There's a guy I like, and he seems to like me, too. I mean, he compliments me a lot and hugs me every day, and things like that. My friends think he probably likes me.
Well, my problem is that I just got over this one guy who I really liked for a while, and he didn't like me back, so I'm scared to fall that hard for someone again because I don't want to get my heart broken again. I guess I'm kind of in denial that a guy could ever like me. I don't want to get my hopes up, just to be let down. What should I do about this? (link)
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I think your problem is over thinking things. We all do it. Im a big fan of it. Except it seems to screw things up. We all know its hard to throw yourself back out there after you've been hurt, but to sit back and think about all the bad possibilities that might come from giving a different boy a chance, is just a waste of time, time that could be being spent with this new boy. My advice to you is to keep your gaurd up this time. You know what happened with the last guy, you learned a lesson, dont let it happen again. Im sure your an amazing girl, and you shouldnt let one ass hole ruin it for the rest of the guys out there =) Goodluckk!
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