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friends or more?
So there is this guy I know and we both kinda like each other but I don't know what to do. We've hung out a couple times but not much since he doesn't live close to me. We used to talk a lot, like text messages and AIM and stuff but lately we haven't talked much. Just yesterday he brought one of his friends to my friends house so they could see each other and he didn't even say hi to me or anything. We were all hanging outfor an hour or so and he kept saying was he wanted to go outside and he wanted to leave the room, very vague. I guess he wanted me to go with him because later that night, he had asked why I didn't go. I thought it was odd and he didn't like me. But now we're kind of talking again. I really want to be more but I just don't know. What should I do?
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if that's what happend then ask him out that's a good opurtonity
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This is really strange. He might like you, maybe not . I'm sure not sure. If he is, he's hiding it really well, and leaving you ( AND me ) very confused, ha.
If he does like you, he's probably just hiding it and very nervous about how to act around you, so he's trying to act all cool and calm and everything and like he doesn't care, when he really does. He might think that if he talks to you too much, he might give off hints he likes you or something.
Or he just might've found it awkward since you two haven't talked in a good while, and he just wasn't really sure how to bring around conversation and get you two talking again like old times.
I would suggest just trying to keep the conversation flowing between the two of you, and make sure that silent break thing doesn't repeat itself all over again. Even though you guys don't live too close to eachother, try and plan some more hang outs at your friends house or wherever you guys were before, or just meet at a place ( the movies, the mall ) somewhere that's halfway for both of you so it's not that great of a drive. And then eventually, just blend in flirting with your conversation and compliment him on how he looks today and let him know he's funny whenever he makes you laugh and just make him feel good about himself. And hug him alot and sit close to him and poke at him and send him subtle hints.
And then just someday whenever you're feeling really good and comfortable enough to, just be like,"Hey, I have a great time hanging out with you today! I got something to tell you, though. I like you alot, ______. I don't know how you feel about me or anything, but I just had to tell you, and if I don't find out how you feel, it'll drive me nuts, lol." And if he feels the same, great! If he doesn't, then just tell him it's alright, adn you two hope you can remain really good friends like you have been, cause better friends then nothing, right?
I hope I helped.
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