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K so I like this guy...well love him.


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 9:03 pm

ok. I know from the start that this will be a long one..I'm sorry if i cause you a lot of trouble with the length.

15/F.
alright so i'm a grade 10 student now and i liked this guy since second semester of grade 9(his names mike), here it is first semester of grade 10. last year he liked me and i liked him, i told him a few times and he said he knew but he never told me he liked me so i figured that he didn't. so someone else asked me out and mike said that he was gonna ask me out the same night but to stay with the guy i was with. i felt terrible and i wanted to dump the other guy for mike but mike wouldn't allow it.
so now here i am, at the beginning of the year close friends of mine were telling me that mike s...

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boy i like, pleasee help.


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 8:27 pm

Alright so there is this boy a really like. Hes my sisters best frend so i really didnt think i had a chance with him. But i always wondered what he though of me. So the other night when imy friend was here she asked him for me. She told him all about how i like him and everything, but now im regeting it. I feel like it was stupid to have my friend do it and i should have done it myself. So i am just wondering what you think? SHould i have done it myself. I know i cant take back time and change it but do you think it was stupid to have my friend do it? Do you thikn ghe will think im more childish now and to afraid to confront him myself?

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I cannot let go.


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 7:29 pm

My ex boyfriend and I were dating for 9 months. 15 days ago he broke up with me because he was unhappy. For the last couple of days I was fine.. but last night and today I have been really upset. I cant seem to let him go. I still cant accept that me and my ex are over. I told him my deepest darkest secret and trusted him with my life. I truley loved him. And still do. I want to know how to let go and get past this so I can move on. I like my friend and he's asked me out but I havent gone out with him because I'm still hung up on my ex.

By the way, my ex used to be this sweet loving guy and now he's turned into a complete idiot. He is trying to take this girls innocence and virginity, ( a new girl in his life). I...

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still deciding


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 6:58 pm

ive been confused for awhile now. im still in love with my ex. i cant help it, he is everything i look for in a guy. well i like this other guy alot too. i was found out he is goin to ask me out and idk what to do. i know he would treat me great but i still love my ex

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i can't get over him


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 6:11 pm

so i've liked the same guy since 10th grade, so it's been 2 years. he's already a freshmen in college and i haven't seen him since this past summer, anyways, i can't get over him and i can't stop thinking about him. gahh. it's really annoying. what should i do?

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question before


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 5:37 pm

i recently asked a question about what to do about a girl named B asking my boyfriend out .. well now one of her friends is saying that my boyfriend and B hookedup .. i dont know what to do .. if anyone has any idea just please write back and i will give u my screenname and i will send u the message the girl sent me PLEASS PLEASE!!

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she's scared. and I don't know what to do.


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 5:08 pm

Okay.
I have a girlfriend, we have been together for a little over 13 months.

Just recently, she has been telling me that she's really scared that she is going to lose me and she is scared that she is going to get hurt again.

I don't know what to do.
I am scared that her not wanting to lose me, will cause her to breakup with me.

It doesnt really make since but thats how it is.




I keep telling her that she will not lose me.
I keep telling her how much in love with her I am, and I know she feels the same way.
I have asked her to please trust me with her heart, and I will never leave.

I just don't know what to say to ma...

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i think i may have done the wrong thing


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 4:59 pm

ok, so, yesterday, somehow, i asked my crush out. he's my guy best friend, and while we were talking, i just kinda slipped it in there. I ACTUALLY ASKED HIM OUT! this morning when i woke up, it seemed like a dream. but it wasn't. after i asked him out, he replied by saying, "i need time to think". how should i take that? what does that mean? if you asked somebody out and said that, what would you have thought? maybe i'm looking into this too far, but i can't help but do it, cuz i'm so nervous and stuff.

please help!

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Conversations with Boyfriend


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 3:19 pm

I need some things that I can bring up with my boyfriend when we talk online. Like so that our conversations can me more intimate. Thanks!!

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did I do the right thing?


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 2:47 pm

I did something a couple of months ago that at the time I thought I did the right thing but now I'm regretting it. Well basically what happened is the man I was in love with who I thought loved me back dumped me very cruelly. I told him that I wouldn't have an affair; or get invovled sexually with him as long as he was married. Instead of respecting my decision he told me he wanted nothing to do with me. The reason I thought he did want to be with me is because he kept asking me if I wanted children and that I'd be a great mom and he had never had kids. I also knew he was really unhappy with his wife. I thought he loved me and he obviously was leading me on and just telling me what I wanted to hear so eventually I would sleep with him....

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How do you know if he is mr right?


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 10:14 am

I have been dating a guy for almost 6 months now and as october 25 2006 I had known him a year. I have dated many guys but none I have felt the way I feel about him! He is amazing and i cant seem to get enough of him. Our relationship is pretty much everything I wanted in a rrelationship, could he be the one?

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Girl Trouble


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 9:55 am

I AM SORRY THAT IT IS SOOOOO LONG!!!

ok....I am a 13/m. I have some really confusing girl issues...Now see I am happy that about 12girls (no joke) like me but now I have known one for quite a while.....She likes me and broke up w/ her boyfriend about 1.5months ago to go out w/ me but neva got the courage to....I also received word from my sister that she liked me...in disquise I like her to....I am a person who lays low.....I don't let out my life..I really like her and she likes me according to my mom and my sister. See everyday that I see her me and her make eye contact and we give each other high fives....I am not sure though what to do...I know she also likes me because one of her best friends keeps telling me that me and...

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Need to know how to show her im not going anywhere.


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 7:31 am

Me and my GF have been dating for 2 1/2 weeks now. It was love at first sight for us. We talk hours a day and see eachother alot. Last night she called me saying how she doesnt deserve me im way too good for her. Then later on she came out to say she wanted a week to think about things like if she's ready for this feeling, if shes safe from hurting me or herself. I freaked out by all of this and was going to go for a long drive but she called me back saying she loved me and to forget the whole week thing she doesnt want me doing something stupid. I tried to talk her into just doing it but now she won't. Then she asked me all these questions like what would you do if I left you, what would you do if someone had a gun to my head, what would y...

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Size??


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 1:12 am

13/M

Hey, i know this is kind of weird but... one day i was at my gf's house and she wanted to give me a handjob but i was to nervous because i thought my penis was to small. What would the normal size be for someone my age? right now mines 5 1/2 inches.
Thanks for helping me.

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My Heart Is Bleeding But It Feels Good, WHY?????


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 12:51 am

I am in love..I think. In my ROTC @ my college, there is this woman (lets call her Rita). We see eachother during ROTC classes, but not much otherwise because of our schedules. I have a complicated work/school schedule, and she has the same schedule problems plus she has a one year old son. We have fun when we do get to hang out, we talk on the phone for no less than an hour almost everynight. Where's the problem you ask? Its what I just told you. We are both in a position where we aren't looking for a relationship for various reasons. For me, I don't have the time or money to have a quality relationship. For her, she just wants to make good friends because she lost so many from high school when she got pregnant with her son (in addition to...

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how do i feel better about myself, i haven't had a boy-frien


Posted Tuesday November 7 2006, 12:43 am

i'm 14,live in NYC, never had a boy-freind of hooked up with a boy before.
Boys intimidate me but i want a bf cause i want someone who can understand me and hold me when im upset and love me, but that never seems like its ever gonna happan cause i get so nervous around them.
also every time i thik about hooking up with boys i start crying because i REALLY want to hook up with someone and every time i think about it a sense of despair comes over me and it feels like im NEVER gonna hook up with anyone
is it because i'm not likeable, or just not outgoing enough, what do boys find wrong with me.
ive read the answers to questions kinda like this one, on sites like this one and none of them ever help, they always make ...

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Blow Job


Posted Monday November 6 2006, 11:20 pm

Riiight...

I'm 14. My girlfriend is 16. We both love each other very much.

Recently, after a night of passion (basically lots of making out and holding one another), she offered to take me to third base. I am simply not sure I'm ready for this, for a couple reasons...

The major one is it's simply incredibly daunting. I've never made it that far with any girl, and this is the kind of thing I've heard about in health class. I feel a little young and unprepared... I just get rather nervous when I consider it.

The other is simply the original idea I had when I first heard of it. I remember back years ago, when I first heard of the whole idea, I remember thinking "Wow, that sounds ...

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telling your parents..


Posted Monday November 6 2006, 10:16 pm

hi..

So here the deal..I think this guy might ask me out and if he does i'm pretty sure i'll say yes..but like how do or when or should i tell my parents?

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3 guys.


Posted Monday November 6 2006, 9:40 pm

okayyy. well this is getting pretty complicatedd. I'm 15/f freshman. so theres these 3 guys. im not sure which one i like or which one i actually should like because theres a flaw with each one.

1- freshman- he is new to our school but in two months he is moving back to texas and we live in pennsylvania. we both like eachother but for those two months he is getting home schooled. i have no idea why but that means that i will never see him and if i do it wont be alot and only for a month or so but he is the cutest kid ever and i really like him. he is so nice and cute and aahhhh. but hes moving.

2- sophmore- me and him had a thing in the summer which ended as nothing more then many hook ups. he claims that he li...

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on the verge of breaking up...=(


Posted Monday November 6 2006, 9:33 pm

ok so last night...things were fine...better than fine, AMAZING! we were normal like usual...having fun, cuddling, kissin you know the whole bf gf thing. well the problem was i thought my mom wanted us to break up because of certain reasons so i told him today but i was crying and said how i didn't want it to happen. well he didn't wait for me outside my class afterwords but at the end of the day he came to my last period class and we talked some things out and he said that worst comes to worst we can just be really good friends. i'm sitting here crying my eyes out outside the door but he's just standing there with a little smile wiping my tears away. but i'm trying my best to make things work but he just kinda seems to be going with the fl...

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