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Need to know how to show her im not going anywhere.
Me and my GF have been dating for 2 1/2 weeks now. It was love at first sight for us. We talk hours a day and see eachother alot. Last night she called me saying how she doesnt deserve me im way too good for her. Then later on she came out to say she wanted a week to think about things like if she's ready for this feeling, if shes safe from hurting me or herself. I freaked out by all of this and was going to go for a long drive but she called me back saying she loved me and to forget the whole week thing she doesnt want me doing something stupid. I tried to talk her into just doing it but now she won't. Then she asked me all these questions like what would you do if I left you, what would you do if someone had a gun to my head, what would you do if I said can we be friends. Then after I answered she said I just wanted to see how you truely felt about me and you seem to care alot. BUt my problem is how can I show her im not going to leave her and that she is safe with me. Her past has been rough. Her dad left before she was born and all her ex's hurt her bad. Im not like them and I respect her alot and just want this to last but idk how to show her anymore that im not going anywhere.
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Make her feel safe with you. When you go places together, put your arm around her, or you know...things like that, say kind words to her. It's how you show your attitude toward her that she will figure this out and know that she is safe with you and that you wont hurt her.
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