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boy i like, pleasee help.
Alright so there is this boy a really like. Hes my sisters best frend so i really didnt think i had a chance with him. But i always wondered what he though of me. So the other night when imy friend was here she asked him for me. She told him all about how i like him and everything, but now im regeting it. I feel like it was stupid to have my friend do it and i should have done it myself. So i am just wondering what you think? SHould i have done it myself. I know i cant take back time and change it but do you think it was stupid to have my friend do it? Do you thikn ghe will think im more childish now and to afraid to confront him myself?
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If this happens again and you cant tell the guy yourself, have your friend ask him out for you instead of telling him that you like him. Or of course ask him out yourself. No reason to put all your cards on the table. that way if he says no you get your answer. and he doesnt know everything you feel.
Now that he knows it is totaly up to him if he wants to follow thru. all the balls are in his court. if he doesnt do something soon id some how show him you are going out with another guy so things dont get to uncomfortable when he comes around. let him and yourself off the hook.
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It would be helpful to know what he said/his reaction when your friend talked to him, but if it is bothering you alot, just go and have a talk with him. If he acted like he wasn't interested just say that your friend was doing it as a joke to annoy you or something. Good luck. x
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k firstly i need to know, how much older is he then you, and what was his answers/reactions about when your friend talked to him
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Guys usally like it when you are more direct but it doesn't matter to much just send him a note or something saying you were frightened he didn't feel the same way about you as you felt for him.
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if your really that worried about it.. go talk to him yourself. Since you can't rewind the past, at this present talk to him yourself about it. And if you get rejected life goes on.. there are more boys to come. good luck!
-Bess
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