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K so I like this guy...well love him.
ok. I know from the start that this will be a long one..I'm sorry if i cause you a lot of trouble with the length.
15/F.
alright so i'm a grade 10 student now and i liked this guy since second semester of grade 9(his names mike), here it is first semester of grade 10. last year he liked me and i liked him, i told him a few times and he said he knew but he never told me he liked me so i figured that he didn't. so someone else asked me out and mike said that he was gonna ask me out the same night but to stay with the guy i was with. i felt terrible and i wanted to dump the other guy for mike but mike wouldn't allow it.
so now here i am, at the beginning of the year close friends of mine were telling me that mike still liked me and so i let him know that i still liked him and then he told me he didnt like me and that he didnt say anything to get them thinking that and so on. so i was pretty upset about it. but just recently he started dating this grade 9 girl at my school, everything was fine between them and fine between him and i and his girl and i were friends to. well my "brother" asked me and mike if we were "making babies yet" and we both said no and that uncovered hidden feelings, but he still had his girlfriend.
now him and his girlfriend are over cuz of reasons and i told him i liked him while they were going out but i dont know if understood as much as i was hoping. so today between classes i gave him a note i wrote him and he read it and so during class (he's in my religion class) i went to the bathroom and i was coming back and he stopped me from going in the door and he asked me what i had to tell him so i told him what i had to say and that was that his (ex)girlfriend cheated on him. he said it was no big deal but when he got back to class his head was in his hands. and so after school he stopped me and said thanks for telling him but seemed kinda sad.
i feel terrible. but at the same time i dont. cuz now he's kinda single and such. but we flirt on msn and in person all the time and stuff so it makes my feelings stronger for him.
so this is what i ask...should i hold onto him and hope for the best or let him go and just be friends? any advice would be great. thanks :]
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I think he was just messing around with you at the begginning but now he does actually have feelings for you.
You should have a long discussion with him about how you feel and how he feels and then decide where to go from then on.
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jus remain friends for now but keep gettin stronger and stronger and closer to him and ur relationship( if it happens) will be stronger and last longer
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