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Friends bieng a bit of jerks and sex
I hav just got in to high school from my small (100 people) primary. My friends are nice but they have this sort of dark side. When ever I do well at school or sport or talk to the girls, when i come back to them the act different and more negitive around me. One day I they pissed me off so bad.
Later when I went on the in ternet a (guess what) a sex pop-up came. Being immature I clicked it. Wow i thought when it came up. I've heard of porn but not on this lv. I also visited it again but stoped because i (dunno) said this wasnt 4 me. Also when I get pissed or sad in my sleep i have dreams of sex and get an erection and allot of feelings. so thats what happens. Its wierd.... When at school things r going bad..... i think and sometimes want sex bad.......why GOD WHY!!!!
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You and your friends are acting exactly like kids just going into high school. You are all hitting a very hormonal time, as well as a time when you are expected to grow up more and make decisions about your lives. There will be jealousy between friends, especially with regard to success in school and relationships (like you talking to girls). It doesn't mean they aren't your friends. They are just trying to figure out their own lives. Over time, it will all ease up a bit, but it won't go away. That is just a wierd part of growing up.
Here is what I advise: go on with your life. Continue to talk to girls and do well in school. If your friends can't take it, that is their problem. If they stop being your friends, it is their loss. It means they weren't your friends after all. But I really doubt it will come to that as long as you have patience and don't make a big issue of it. They probably don't even realize they are being jerks about it. If you feel comfortable talking to them about it, do so. But seeing as you are guys, it will probably be awkward and unnecessary (most of my friends were guys when I was a teen. I really experience more guy behavior than most girls should).
As for the sexual urges, everyone gets them. Even girls. We just don't get them as obviously (we can't get erections :P). Sex is a good way to relieve stress. Our bodies instinctively know that. When you go to sleep all stressed or upset, your body tries to help by giving you dreams of good things. It is totally normal, especially at your age.
I would avoid the internet porn though. First, if your parents ever get on your computer, that could lead to a very difficult conversation with concerned parents. Second, those things, especially the ones with pop-ups, often have viruses. You could really damage your computer. Yeah, there are some safe sites, but it is really hit or miss.
Go ahead and masterbate to alleviate the urges. It is not harmful. You will not go blind or get hair on your palms. Trust me. My eyesight is bad, but it has been since I was a little kid. I have yet to meet anyone with hairy palms, and a good amount of teens and adults masterbate.
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ok jealous friends suck and should be let go. but im more focused on the other part of this question.
First of all, sex/masturbation are stress releivers. guys wake up with erections all the time (often referred to as "morning wood" if you didnt know). plus, guy's are usually thinking about sex anyway. you're normal, don't worry about it.
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yo man, i know this question is a bit old, but i figred id just say, dont worry bout it, now your friends, they're not necasarilly not friends, just jelous, spread out and get some more, but ya dotn have to ditch your old ones, and also, dont worry bout sex. it's normal, it's somthing that you want. my suggestion dude is get into some more sports, get a gf you really care about, and if worse comes to worse were you cant get your mind off sex. jerk off. its perfectly healthy. need any more advice feel free to ask me questions. peace man
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just like the person below me said find new friends your friends arent friends there just jealous. also thinking and wanting sex is perfectly normal lol.. its just your horomones. next time dont click on a sex pop up because sometimes they can be viruses and they can mess up your computer just letting you know lol. hope i helped !
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your friends arent friends find new ones.....second of all its not abnormal to think about sex...its a fact of life...human nature if you will theres nothing wrong with you because of that...i guess what your doing is misinterpreting emotions or retreating back to a comfort or security zone which may or may not be sexual. its not abnormal to think about sex just dont let it lead you in to unwise actions because thinking is 100 percent diffrent then actually acting on it. maybe you should find an outlit to pain like a sport or writing..e.t.c... you still probably have sexual thoughts because its normal..but youlll have something else to retreat to.
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