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Boyfriend's porn choice.


Posted Saturday June 29 2013, 8:37 am

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. Initially when we got together he had a high porn addiction, but now we have been living together for a year and even longer than that, he's been watching it in reasonable amounts and for instance if I'm gone for the weekend.

I'm fine with that, but what concerns me is that his content choice is everything that I am not...
I.e he's always searching for threesomes, big boobs (I'm not even that small, I am a big C cup), hot redheads and anal.

From a guy's perspective, is this a reflection on everything I am not, or is it simply the small turn ons or even compensation; I have told him I'll never have a threesome as it never is as awesome as porn makes it seem & I...

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Falling for bf's cousin


Posted Friday June 28 2013, 5:06 pm

Hello. My bf and I have been going out for almost two months. We used to talk to each other a lot and send messages back and forth on Instagram. But since summer started he has stopped texting me and responding to my Instagram comments. On the other hand, his cousin and I are really good friends. And we talk to each other everyday. I've also formed a little crush on him and he has too. Then yesterday on Instagram, his ex (who I truly hate) sent me a comment on Instagram asking if him and I were still going out. What should I do because I really love my current bf but I'm afraid he doesn't like me or has cheated on me!


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First date


Posted Friday June 28 2013, 3:51 am

So I've been on a date once with a guy so I didn't have to worry about any planning, but I want to take this girl on a date, but my parents won't give me a lot of money right now. I was originally going to take her bowling but does anyone know any creative not too expensive date ideas that she'd probably like?

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Cute ideas to do with boyfriend?


Posted Thursday June 27 2013, 11:12 pm

17/F
I would love a guys opinion, but if you are a girl and you have ideas that's great!
I was wondering, what are some cute thing that you and your boyfriend/girlfriend do when you hang out? Like, go to the park, go on walks, watch movies and cuddle, etc. We usually do these things, but I want to do something with him that wont cost too much money or gas haha. Thanks so much!

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i need advice


Posted Thursday June 27 2013, 4:42 pm

am from Tanzania. my name is helen am 20years old i have a boyfriend for one year now but he changed alot and start to ignore me

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I need advice


Posted Wednesday June 26 2013, 1:02 pm

what should i do after getting asked out ?

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My question is about the TRIGESTREL pill


Posted Wednesday June 26 2013, 10:33 am

I would like to know more about this TRIGESTREL pill because I've never used it before and now its my first time using it. The problem is that I've been in menstruation about am month now and at the clinic they suggested that I must use the pill. So I would like to know how does it work and what side effects does it have.


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Shes going away for summer


Posted Tuesday June 25 2013, 3:18 pm

Hey im a 15 year old male and have been texting this girl for about 4 months.we've gone for walks and kissed 3 times but arent officially going out.i really really like her and she says she likes me too,but shes going away for 2 months now and i dont know what to do.i feel like theres nothing for me when shes not here and i need her company because it makes me so happy.i honestly dont think i can last 2 months without her.please help me is there anything i can do?

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She doesnt seem as interested as I am


Posted Tuesday June 25 2013, 3:11 pm

Hey first of all I'd like to say thanks for any advice i get.Well basically this girl and i (both 15) have been texting for a few months and have gone for walks(ending in kissing) 3 times.we have both told eachother that we like eachother but shes going away in 5 days for 2 months and i dont know if shes as serious as i am about where we're going.i really like her and might love her but she doesnt reply quickly to texts sometimes for a day and i dont know if we're staying exclusive for the next 2 months.i just dont know how seriously she likes me and i wouldnt know how to ask.please help

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Should I trust him or should I not?


Posted Tuesday June 25 2013, 9:51 am

So basically, I'm 14 and I've been dating this guy for four months. The first two months were amazing; he made me feel like I was the only girl around. But then I started noticing that he wasn't that communicative and on my birthday he just texted me saying, "happy birthday XD". After doing so much for him, I was hurt. Then recently, I went for a vacation and when I came back, I found out that he "partially" likes another girl ; a girl a hate. I suggested a break because I was too hurt and also because if I would show my sadness he'd end up crying and making me feel much worse. I don't know what to do. I told him we get a chance to start over but I love him alot. Please suggest me something which I can do!

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Asking your parents if you can start dating


Posted Tuesday June 25 2013, 2:09 am

How do you ask your parents if you can start dating???

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sex


Posted Monday June 24 2013, 11:00 pm

anyone want to have sex???? i am a female age 13

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I told him I still loved him and he didn't reply :(


Posted Monday June 24 2013, 2:34 pm

22/F
My ex and I broke up at the end of May and he said it was because we were just fighting too much. However, I found out on facebook that he had started dating some girl about a week after we split. So I felt like the reason we broke up was not because of the fighting (which we were) but because he was probably talking to her while we were dating.
Anyway, he texted me for the first time last weekend acting like we were best friends, which I told him when we broke up we would NOT be friends again (we were friends for 8 years prior to dating). and he kept texting me although I told him I didn't want to be friends, I guess he thought I was joking.
Yesterday he texted me again and I straight told him to stop texting me...

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i don't know if he is my boyfriend or not


Posted Monday June 24 2013, 8:00 am

So hey guys, I'm gonna try to make this as short as possible.. So i was a dancer for a sweet 16, the 16 was on Saturday, we went in the limo and everything, and so my dancing partner and i acted like we were boyfriend & girlfriend... The whole day.. Anyways, the sweet 16 girls aunt uploaded a picture of us with his arm around me, and another one with us holding hands, and another one with me sitting on his lap with his arm around jr and us holding hands, well he doesn't have a Facebook, but his mom and grandma do. His mom commented 'that girl has a sweet and beautiful mother in law' on another one she commented 'next time you two should sit down with me and have a talk, it's my first time being a mom in law' his grandma commented 'am i ...

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Am i too young for sex ?


Posted Monday June 24 2013, 4:11 am

Okay, I'm 16 years old, and a girl. Me and my boyfriend are both virgins still, He's the same age as me. We both were talking about losing it to each other, But we're a little bit scared we don't wanna use a condom either, I said we should wait a little more. We love each other very much too. Are we like still too young to have sex ? Should we just get it over with?

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Sex


Posted Monday June 24 2013, 2:39 am

Im sorry but my cousin did not me

YI

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Torn between 2 boys.


Posted Sunday June 23 2013, 4:44 pm

Even writing this is hard. I was dating my ex boyfriend for 6 months, for the first 3 months, everything went so well. We were so close, physically and emotionally. We have been split for 3 months now and all I can do is think about him. The reason we split up is because to me, it seemed as though he was getting really bored and I felt as though he lost interest so fast. We used to argue all the time, and I just got fed up, so I ended it. I changed my number and tried to move on, somehow he still crosses my mind, every day I find myself doing things when I'm really busy, and I still think about him. Sometimes, I can cry for hours about him. I am so deeply in love with him, but I know he's no good. He treated me like crap, and the countless ...

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Will I know it's the 'right time?'


Posted Sunday June 23 2013, 2:49 pm

I am 16. My bf is 19, we have been together for over 3 years. I love him very much, with all my heart. He has NEVER forced, pressured or even suggested we have sex, even though I've been 16 for over half a year. He always says, he is only ready when he is sure I am ready... but how will I know?

My mum is ok with it all, she really likes my bf, she says he treats me right. She has always said that when I am ready I will know, and as long as it is for love, and protected, she is ok with me having sex.

But how do I know? In my head it is like:

- I am scared (will it hurt? will I be good? what do I do? will i feel different after?)

- I am confused (we have done other stuff... I like...

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I don't know what to do.


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 10:27 pm

I'm staring off with the fact that I'm a female and 16 years old. OK, so me and my boyfriend who I love very much were kind of in an argument. He said he was going to go have sex with other b******, he then said he was playing around. I took it seriously, I was really upset, and still am now. I don't know if I should still be with him. He told me that he was really sorry and he didn't mean it. He felt really bad I noticed in his eyes. But anyways I haven't talked to him since this happened, I told him to just leave and go home. What should I do ? Should I forgive him ? Was it a little accident ?

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Should I lay off dating for a while


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 8:57 pm

F. 16.
I recently got in to a relationship, 3 months after I split from my ex of 6 months. I fell in deeply emotionally with my ex boyfriend. Cut the story straight, I don't see or speak to my ex and I don't have a problem. He still crosses my mind everyday everyday the tine, but when I see him, I get quite upset. Every time he sends me a message, my hearts beat really fast, not through excitement though. He sent me a message, telling me he missed me and he asked if I still cared. It made me become so hot, like a hot flush and I started crying. He didn't want to know me before, when we were together, we didn't quite work out. It was his emotions, it was like he was emotionally unavailable. Anyway, I really do like my boyfriend at the...

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