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guys are soo confusing
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 9:41 am
so about a year ago i gave this boy that liked me ALOT a chance we went out for a few months and we were young and in love .. everything was perfect until one day out of the blue he broke up with me .. i was heartbroken... so we didn't really talk all like that for a while i thought i was over himand then we started talking again and the feelings came back then i made a mistake and had sex with him even though i don't regret it .. he was a virgin .. and then he denied everything even to me .. when im the person he did it with ? makes no sense right? anyways.. then he was like i don't want anything to do with you blah blah blah .. ya know the stuff guys say .. but besides that i was at his house the other day and he kissed me .. and this is...
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girl trouble
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 8:49 am
ok so i'm 15, lez, and there's this girl at my school who's also bi, or maybe gay and she's a junior, but is only like a year and a half older than me. she's experienced and is currently with a senior. The thing is, they've only been going out a couple weeks, the girl she's dating is a senior who is not pretty or interesting or anything, and i'm pretty sure she's just going out with her to get back at her ex. Anyways, i like her soooo much! i've never been with a girl, but she's the only thing i think about! unfortunately she's a year and a half older than me! sometimes i feel like she likes me, but we're just kind of mutual friends, we have a class together and talk once in a while but have never hung out alone or anything. Well anyways i'...
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frustrated with myself
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 8:41 am
okay so i hang out with this guy all the time and last night it was clear that he wanted to kiss me and he hinted at it but i just couldn't do it! i wanted to, but i think i was afraid i'd suck at it or something.
now i'm really mad that i didn't do it.
seriously is that a legitimate fear? that i'll be a horrible kisser? or am i just being paranoid and have nothing to worry about?
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WOWZA i hate him
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 1:14 am
Alright well me and this girl were in a relashionship for about a year and a half.we were great together,well a few months ago she left me for this guy i hated to begin with and omg he treated her like shit.well lately ive bearaly been able to get over her and try to move on well i found this girl i absolutely adore.well guess what i find out,the girl he broke up with to be with my ex is this girl and shes not over him and to tell you the truth i dunno if im fully over my ex.shes sooo great though and sweet to me,and we have soo much in common.she knows the way i feel about her,im soo confused though,what should i do,i really want to be with her.and let me restate...i hate him lol.
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the dreaded mixked singals
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 12:37 am
I do not know what to do about mixed signals. all i want to know is how the guy feels because he likes this other girl but throughout this year it feels like we have something but its like you dont talk about it. But he still likes that girl. One week he flirts with me alot we make eyecontact and he just comes up to me,eats lunch with me, calls me,etc. But then the next week he will just drag me along.lets just say its very dramay! How do i know wat do because i feel like i just want to know without just staright up asking him. If he has no intentions of anything then i will try to move on but i just want to know!and do u think that what he is doing is deliberate because of the drama and the "history" or is it in my head?
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my ex crush and my friend...sorry that its long!
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 12:36 am
I liked this guy for about 2 years and it was very dramaful and very hearbreaking at times because he didnt have any intrest in me he used the dreaded mixed signals. I am starting to get over him and i am in what i call the "bitter" stage, where im just kind of bitter at him. But i can not act like im mad because this would be sensless and stupid. The problem is that he just started dating one of my really good friends. They have liked eachother for about 2 years and she knew that i liked him but ive assured her and everyone else i dont anymore so we dont talk about it at all anymore. even though there realationship shouldnt bother me it does. alot i guess and im just more bitter to him, but rather then being hostile toward im i j...
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his dad!?!? am i going crazi?
Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 12:06 am
see heres the deal. my ex boyfriend and i are amazing together i love him but of course there are things about him that bother the shit outa me. but me and him are gettin bak together. i've been thinkin about the future alot lately and i dont like the way i've been thinking. see.... and him and his dad all hang out alot of the time! his dad is THE shit! well i've been thinkin about the perfect man for me, and the perfect man is.... his dad! his dad is 34 yrs old! hes the greatest. im sooo comfortable around his dad! i take showers at his house and chill around the house in practically nothing while he sleeps! hes walked in on me naked and just went about his business talking to me normally not even glancing twice or nothin like nothin was w...
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What does this phrase mean?
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 11:53 pm
I've been thinking about it a lot... and i've been dating this guy for over a month now and he's always saying, "we'll figure it out or 'we'll' do this and 'we'll' do that" Does the fact that he includes "we" mean that he wants to take it to the next level or at least sees us as a couple?? When I told him that this other guy was bothering me to go out with him he said that I should tell that other guy that I'm seeing someone... does that mean that "we're" a something since he's being kind of showing ownership of me? erghh why are guys so confusing X_X
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ehh
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 11:49 pm
how can i tell whether or not my bf is using me, or if all the kissing & stuff is out of affection? weve been together 5 months, and the farthest its gone is like fingerin n stuff, and thats the most experience for either of his... but still.. i mean maybe im just afraid of being used? he doesnt pressure me into anything...
16-f
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Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 11:43 pm
so i was flirting w/ this guy last night online and i gave him my number and vice versa. and told him i MIGH text him if he was lucky (in a flirtacious way). well its the next night and i want to but wat should i say? it has to be flirty like along the lines that hes lucky i texted him and stuff but ask him also be something he can respond to
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hopeless love
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 11:29 pm
15/f
Okay, i really, really like this guy at school. i've liked him since last year and i've tried not to like him though, because there's a possibility he might not come back to my school next year. But, to my dismay, i'm still totally in love with him. See, last year he was in practically all of my classes, and this year, he's not in one on my classes. And the other day, he passed me in the hall and said my name in a drawn out voice, like, "Caaaaarrrie." and he smiled. and I was stupid and said "hello". I mean, what type of person says hello the way i did anymore. i felt like i made a fool of myself. Anyway, last year i think he liked me, he and i were the only two people waiting on someone to pick us up...
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?
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 11:03 pm
Okay so I am girl and i'm striaght but I have this problem of having this urge to makeout with my best friend and she has the same urge to...She just recently discovered she was bi but I dont feel like i'm bi because i would never go out with a girl I just love to makeout with them or in other words her. So what should I do or what do you think is the problem?
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the perfect man.....
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 11:03 pm
see heres the deal. my ex boyfriend and i are amazing together i love him but of course there are things about him that bother the shit outa me. but me and him are gettin bak together. i've been thinkin about the future alot lately and i dont like the way i've been thinking. see.... and him and his dad all hang out alot of the time! his dad is THE shit! well i've been thinkin about the perfect man for me, and the perfect man is.... his dad! his dad is 34 yrs old! hes the greatest. now dont think his dad is a petafile and dont think im into the older men, cuz normaly im not. i mean i dont wanna b with his dad but his dad is everything i've ever wanted to b with...... is that normal? cuz it makes me feel uncomfortable. and im not sure if i sould b worried or not
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asking them out
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 10:42 pm
there are a couple of girls i want to ask out, i have fun hang out with all of them, the problem is i don't know withc one i should ask out?
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My Best Friend & My ex
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 10:39 pm
So a few weeks ago I broke up with this guy, (he asked another girl while we were sill dating). I stil liked him when we broke up but I felt there was no other way to deal with it.
Well about a few weeks later one my friends (and his best friend) "blog" her comment said "what do you do when your best friend likes you and TWO of your friends like him?"
I was so sure that one of the friends was me so I rushed over to her and asked her who the other girl was. . . . . . . . .
She told me it was a long time ago but that my "best friend" was the other girl. I was so furious at my best friend. She didnt even tell me. But now my ex lieks her and I dont want them to go out. I still have a little bit of feeling for him. WHAT AM I SUPOSE TO DO??
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Problem with possibly soon to be ex Boyfriends...
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 9:33 pm
Someone threatened me that he'd beat up my boyfriend if I don't make out with him. My boyfriend is tough and could've put up a good fight, but I didn't want any trouble... so I just did it. It is NOT OUT OF ANY SEXUAL DESIRE!!
So I did... but my boyfriend caught me. At the time I didn't know, but then I saw him kissing his ex girlfriend. I asked him what he was doing and he asked me what I wass doing when I was snogging that other guy. i told him what happened, and he pushed his ex away and started apologizing to me. He's like, "I'm sorry, Hannah, I didn't know..."
I started crying and running away. He tried to call me and everything, but I''m really sensitive and I just didn't know what to do. I really don't f...
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used and dissapointed
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 9:26 pm
well a few days ago me and my bf broke up after that he wont talk to me i broke up with him cause he used me and his a big ass lier so he so mad i hate it after we broke up he told one of my friends that he broke up with thats not true anyways he said he loves me and all that shit i dont belive him oh ya do you think i'm ready to start dating
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scared to death of being humiliated AGAIN
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 9:20 pm
ok.....i like this guy in my grade. i sit near himin a couple classes. We talk every day hes there, and are friendly.
Well.....hes really cute. in 5th grade i also liked him (im in 8th now, and i started liking him again) and i wrote him a note telling him and everyoen found out, and im afraid ill be humiliated again if i try and do something similar. i have seen hints that just maybe he considers me more than a friend....but im not sure
please help me
p.s. i also don't think i could have a friend ask him for me, im just too shy and since i see him constantly. his locker is also three down from mine!! hes really nice...:(
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he likes me?
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 8:59 pm
15/f.
i've never been in a relationship before..and honestly..i'm not pretty AT ALL. and yet, this guy likes me. he asked me out before, back in like..march. but i said no to him..because i was going through a lot of issues with this other kid who i liked. well now..i hate that other kid and i really like this guy again. apparently, he still likes me too. we can talk a whole lot about pretty much everything..but we never bring up our feelings for eachother. i kind of want to say SOMETHING to him..anything really. i just..don't want to sound like an idiot when i do say something to him.. how can i prevent myself from making a complete idiot out of myself? i don't really want to bring it up out of the blue..and i don't want it to turn ...
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present for bf!
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 8:34 pm
(sorry,not sure if this is right catagory!)
Me and my bf have been going out since December 5th, but we are planning on making it last. I want to give him something special that he'll actually like and not like shove in his closet.
(I am in addition baking him choc. chip cookies)
I'm 14 and he's 15 if it helps
Does anyone have any good present ideas?
Money doesnt matter, but i want it to be reasonable.
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