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his dad!?!? am i going crazi?
see heres the deal. my ex boyfriend and i are amazing together i love him but of course there are things about him that bother the shit outa me. but me and him are gettin bak together. i've been thinkin about the future alot lately and i dont like the way i've been thinking. see.... and him and his dad all hang out alot of the time! his dad is THE shit! well i've been thinkin about the perfect man for me, and the perfect man is.... his dad! his dad is 34 yrs old! hes the greatest. im sooo comfortable around his dad! i take showers at his house and chill around the house in practically nothing while he sleeps! hes walked in on me naked and just went about his business talking to me normally not even glancing twice or nothin like nothin was wrong or even wierd! now dont think his dad is a petafile and dont think im into the older men, cuz normaly im not. i mean i dont wanna b with his dad but his dad is everything i've ever wanted to b with...... is that normal? cuz it makes me feel uncomfortable. and im not sure if i sould b worried or not
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I really just think that your emotions are nothing really centered on anything. I just think you have emotions for this man, as like an uncle or something. You respect him as your boyfriend's father and he respects you as his son's girlfriend. I think it's just the bubbly feeling you get around family, but you're just confused about it because he's not related to you or anything.
...Just try not be naked at his house, okay? ;)
-Jenny C
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it's normal to think about being with someone older it's just a way that your mind explores things but it doesn't mean that it will happen. it is said that father and son are very much a like. one possible reason for feeling the way that you do is that you are picturing what your boyfriend will most likly become and since you have such a bond with the father in the first place that when you are picturing the boyfriend older you jump to the father as that is who the boyfriend get most of this traits from. i would take it as one of those things that the mind does without thinking just wondering at possible solutions as to what your boyfriend might become in a few years
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