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Problem with possibly soon to be ex Boyfriends...
Someone threatened me that he'd beat up my boyfriend if I don't make out with him. My boyfriend is tough and could've put up a good fight, but I didn't want any trouble... so I just did it. It is NOT OUT OF ANY SEXUAL DESIRE!!
So I did... but my boyfriend caught me. At the time I didn't know, but then I saw him kissing his ex girlfriend. I asked him what he was doing and he asked me what I wass doing when I was snogging that other guy. i told him what happened, and he pushed his ex away and started apologizing to me. He's like, "I'm sorry, Hannah, I didn't know..."
I started crying and running away. He tried to call me and everything, but I''m really sensitive and I just didn't know what to do. I really don't feel like forgiving him, but should I? The guy that forced me to kiss him asked me out, should I go with him? Should I go with neither?? This is getting really crazy... I can't handle it!
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You should stay with the boyfriend. When guys get jealous they feel that they have to get back at you, and like you said you didn thave sexual desire and neither did he. Guys want to act tough like they dont care that you cheated, so you should forgive him and go out with him. he seems like a nice guy. just tell him to make sure he talks ot you in the future instead of overreacting, but its not just him all guys do that. its in their nature.
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That is SOOO totally bad!!
I feel sorry for you. =( That's a crappy thing to happen to ANYBODY. So here's what to do:
Don't deal with any of them. Forgive the poor boyfriend, but it might not be safe to go out with him. It'll be awkward, but it seems you guys could stay friends... He overreacted.
Definitely DO NOT go out with that stupid idiot that caused the problem in the first place. He's just a loser. He shouldn't be mesing with anyone's lives like that!!
Meanwhile, look for other nice guys.
Remember:Live.Laugh.Flirt!! ;)
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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You are seriously considering going out with someone who threatened you? Have you lost your mind?
I'm sorry but that is not a good idea. Don't even consider him. Good grief if he is threatening you now he will probably threaten you throughout your relationship. Then when you have finally had enough he will threaten you some more. Regardless of what else happens here, do not get into an abusive relationship.
As for the current boyfriend, immature mistake. You don't solve problems by making more. That is a lesson you should both take away from this.
Should you forgive him? I think so. Doesn't mean you should stay in the relationship if you don't want to but, you could have easily told him of this other guys threats or taken it to a teacher or even the police. So what you did was really not a whole lot better than what he did.
The decision is yours to make. Think it over seriously and don't be bullied by anyone. :)
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