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frustrated with myself
okay so i hang out with this guy all the time and last night it was clear that he wanted to kiss me and he hinted at it but i just couldn't do it! i wanted to, but i think i was afraid i'd suck at it or something.
now i'm really mad that i didn't do it.
seriously is that a legitimate fear? that i'll be a horrible kisser? or am i just being paranoid and have nothing to worry about?
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Just being paranoid ;]
Kissing can be pretty scary if you over-think
it, so try to relax. I've been in your sitaution
before, its not fun.
Most likley, the guy will be more happy to
kiss you then to judge how well you lip-lock.
So, when you get the chance lean into him.
Light touch your lips to his.
Don't go into any more unless he hints it
first, therefor don't shove your tounge into
his mouth.
Good Luck <3
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well i know you maybe nervous that you are a bad kisser but dont worry about it i am sure the guy thinks the same thing. The guy may even think since you arent kissing him that you dont want to kiss him. Ive had a similar experience. Just go for it and it will come naturally and it might turn out that he is the one who is a bad kisser. Who knows. And the worst possible thing is that you guys dont like the way the other kisses its a personal preference really, there is no such thing as a bad kisser in my book.
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generarly, guys are too happy to be getting kissed to notice that the girl is a bad kisser. so unless you like bite off a chunk of his tongue, itll be fine.
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Every body worries about this at one point. And yes your being paranoid and have nothing to worry about, but every is too.
Think of it this way: What if hes a bad kisser? Would you break up with him just because of that?(if you answer is yes than your kinda mean)When the time comes to kiss him, just do it. You will just know what to do. You could always just follow his lead and do what he does.
Hope I helped
-Linsay
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