Question Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 11:03 pm
see heres the deal. my ex boyfriend and i are amazing together i love him but of course there are things about him that bother the shit outa me. but me and him are gettin bak together. i've been thinkin about the future alot lately and i dont like the way i've been thinking. see.... and him and his dad all hang out alot of the time! his dad is THE shit! well i've been thinkin about the perfect man for me, and the perfect man is.... his dad! his dad is 34 yrs old! hes the greatest. now dont think his dad is a petafile and dont think im into the older men, cuz normaly im not. i mean i dont wanna b with his dad but his dad is everything i've ever wanted to b with...... is that normal? cuz it makes me feel uncomfortable. and im not sure if i sould b worried or not
well sence i said that... i should probly anwser your question sence that was kindof rude of me... i mean i dont even know you so i dont know if that made it worse or if you started laghing...
im sorry
yeah that has happened to me before. it doesnt mean you are into older men or annything, and even if you were, that isnt really that bad unless you try to get with one...
it isnt rong that you like an older guy...
but it is kindof rong that you are getting back with your x and you like that perticular older man.
sence you are getting back with your xboyfriend, it might be a good idea just to stay away from his dad... like if he wants you to eat diner with him and his dad try to steer away from that
nah you dont have nnything to be worried about it might even just be a phase. it was for me...
again no hard feelings bout stacys mom
hope i helped
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snickerzz11 answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 11:28 pm: Like you said, you just like the qualities that your boyfriend's dad has. I don't think this necessarily means you want to be with his dad, it just means you like the way he acts. All you have to do is find someone with the same qualities (your boyfriend?) that is your age, and everything will be fine. Hope I helped! [ snickerzz11's advice column | Ask snickerzz11 A Question ]
Huxtable answered Wednesday December 20 2006, 11:07 pm: Woah this is alittle wierd..and i'm glad you dont wanna be with his dad! Just maybe hang out with your ex and his dad and show your ex how you enjoy some of the stuff his dad does and maybe he'll start doing some of those things..also try telling your ex the things you dont like about him that bother the shit out of you! that will change some stuff :] good luck!
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