Question Posted Thursday December 21 2006, 12:36 am
I liked this guy for about 2 years and it was very dramaful and very hearbreaking at times because he didnt have any intrest in me he used the dreaded mixed signals. I am starting to get over him and i am in what i call the "bitter" stage, where im just kind of bitter at him. But i can not act like im mad because this would be sensless and stupid. The problem is that he just started dating one of my really good friends. They have liked eachother for about 2 years and she knew that i liked him but ive assured her and everyone else i dont anymore so we dont talk about it at all anymore. even though there realationship shouldnt bother me it does. alot i guess and im just more bitter to him, but rather then being hostile toward im i just dont talk to him that much anymore. but he can def tell that i am and he is stating to do that terrible thing he does were when he sees im paying no attention he flirts and flirts, but i am holding back and doing fine. wat should i do about my bitterness? how do i let it go cause i feel like ive been here
Additional info, added Tuesday November 28 2006, 9:41 pm: too long and im tired of it.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? the_sweeter_heart answered Thursday December 21 2006, 6:38 am: I am SO sorry... but your friend is a HORRIBLE friend for going out with that guy when she knew you liked him. She's a total... wow... I can't believe her! I know you told her that you got over him, but still...!
Anyways, though, to the point:
Ignore the idiot when he flirts with you. He shouldn't be flirting with you when he's going out with somebody. Avoid him to silently show him that you really dislike him. Roll your eyes at anything annoying he does. He's not worth your time.
ductape_n_roses answered Wednesday November 29 2006, 12:03 am: Okay, you guys are ex's for a reason and if you want to go through that again, feel free to go back to him and flirt but he's taken.
There is no reason for you to resent him. Think of this as his gift for a better and less stressful life. And don't linger on him. Go out there and have fun with friends and meet new guys =] [ ductape_n_roses's advice column | Ask ductape_n_roses A Question ]
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