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we always fight and i want to stop!
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 5:38 pm
(f/14) me && my guy fight A LOT...usually over stupid stuff!!i want to stop fighting like that..i love him to death!!i want to cry like all the time when we fight cuz its always my fault!!we never have anything to talk about!!&& conversation is like a relationship!!does anyone have ANY topics i can use?? (besides..how r you,how was your day, whats up,the same old boring stuff!) We normally fight over stuff i say...&& normally right after i say something i regret it!! Its like I always get on his nerves and start the fight!!I DONT want to lose him!!but i know if i keep it up i will!!HELP ME PLEASE!!I really love him to death...what do i do to stop our fighting??
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Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 5:31 pm
16/f.
alright well i really like this kid. ive known him since like 4th grade but i never really talked to him or hung out with. well like 2 weeks ago i went to a party and i started talking to him. he told me he always though i was cute and he doesnt know why he never talked to me. well we hooked up at the party and then we started talking on the phone. he invited me to the movies and we hung out. well then he invited me to another party. i wasnt at home so he called like all my friends and when i talked to him he was like "you should really come cause ill be there and yeah" well i didnt have a ride but he did everything to find me one. well i went there and we just hung out and we were alone in the basement while everyone...
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Player
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 5:04 pm
well Theres This Guy we went out like in term 1 or 2 in this year and i liked him then stoped then i saw him again nd we talked and im not sure if i like him but his the player type he gets a girl and dumps her in a month so i know i shouldnt tell him cause he wont care but if i do end up liking him what should i do ??
[xOo]
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HE HAS MY HEART...
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 4:22 pm
16-female
i'll make this short..
ive liked this guy for awhile but he has a girlfriend..whenever we hangout we always flirt and sometimes the things he says and does makes me think that he likes me or is attracted to me but hes always talking about how much he loves his girlfriend. but he has taken over my heart <3 and i cant get over him..id die to be his girl..
this quote explains us perfectly..
dont flirt with me and make me
feel special unless you really mean it.
im so sick of that "lets flirt, but we're
just friends and thats all we are ever
going to be" shit..
i dont know what to do.. i always get mixed signals and im not going ...
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here goes...
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 4:18 pm
yeah im a very a.d.d. type of person, im loud, im outgoing and so many random things come to my head that i cant keep track of anything. but i have alot of close friends and they some how love me even though im just about the most hyper person in the world. well most of the time when i like someone i have to control myself and not show how energetic i am or else they would be scared off. like i usually have to try so hard to stay calm and not be quite so obnoxious. but ive finally met this guy that i can be my complete self around and he still feels the same way about me that i feel about him. he is one of the greatest people ive ever met. hes cute and funny, and nice, and gets me. soo the only problem is, is that my good friend that knew h...
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girlfriend maybe moving...
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 4:03 pm
ok sorry this is kinda long
14/m
alright well the other day i was talking to my girlfriend and she told me that she was going out of town for a few days this week, and she didn't kno why. the next day she asked her parents why they were going, and they said to look at houses because they might be moving to that city, so now she's not talking to her parents and stuff....
well, we've been together for a while now, and i don't know what to do...i think about her all the time and i absolutely love her, but i know it's not going to be able to work out when she lives on the other side of the state! so what do i do if she is moving...? should i just end it there or should i stay with her until she moves? i really don't know what i should do...
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confused
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 3:52 pm
two questions.
16. first serious relationship. ive been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. sometimes it feels like im just sooo in love and he's the one for me and everything and i cant be without him. but at other times it feels like theres no spark and were just friends and im ready for something new, but at the same time i dont want him with anyone else but me. whats up with that?
and also. we dont do anything! all we ever do is chill at his house watchin tv and makin out. im all for just chillin sometimes but every time? no. the problem is he doesnt want to do anything! theres nothing to do in this town except skate, bowl, movies, shop, and eat. its too cold to go to the go cart track or anything [summe...
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ex help
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 3:33 pm
Ok so everything was going well with me and my boyfriend. But then out of the blue he said it was over. I was so sad. He didn't even want to give me a reason. I am so depressed. We were together for 10 months. I really don't know what went wrong. Well anyway I need help to make him feel bad. I don't go to his same school. So that's a problem. I want him to feel bad the way he made me feel bad. I also want to find out if he still likes me or if he ever did. But I can't ask him that. Any ideas?. Please help. Aslo if it helps I'm 14 f. Thankyou so much!
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He is getting married...
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 3:25 pm
My ex. boyfriend is getting married in 3 weeks...what do I do? I still have feelings for him but i do not know how to tell him. And i think this is a really bad time to tell him how i feel. But if i dont tell him, i know ill regret it for the rest of my life. And to top it off, he invited to the wedding because he considers me a great friend.What do i do?
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New Years
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 2:19 pm
Alright, i wanted to do something special on New Years for my boyfriend. Since new years is our 11 month anniversary too. I cant think of any ideas. I was already going to wear a skirt for him since i have never worn somethin like that before (excluding one time for wedding)haha. I need ideas on what to do for him. Anything, sexual absolutely anything. I have no clue on what to do. Thanks.
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to scared to say anything to a guy and his friends
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 1:48 pm
well i like this guy and he liked me back once but the day he finally got the courage to talk to me i was sorta mean cause i had i big fight with this other guy and i just didn't trust anyone that moment and was really pissed of. so yeah then he went to a different school not far away from my school but he left cause he hated it there and just wasn't happy. but sometimes he comes to visit so hat would be the chance to talk to him right? well yeah but i just don't have the courage. last time he sorta smiled but then looked away and when school was over and he was on his way to the bus he wanted to turn around but then he saw that i looked at him and then he just kept on moving.
so what can i do to get the courage to talk to him. i don...
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Classic Problemsss
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 1:14 pm
okay, i am dead in the middle of the classic issue of being in love with your best friend.
lets call him Joe.
joe and i got really close really fast. my friends say "we just click". and i can see it too. when were together we're inseparable and when were apart we talk all the time. he tells me a lot of things he doesnt tell his other friends, even the ones who have been there forever.
but just recently, joe has become more "attractive", much more attractive..and now girls are alll over him..and guys, too. And ive liked him since the first time we hung out..before his grand transformation. and im afraid hes going to end up with someone who only talks to him NOW beacuse of his ...
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boyfriend
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 12:59 pm
Everytime I'm laying down on my boyfriend and we are making out, he always seems to shake his knee/foot (like move it back or forth, tap it, i can't really explain it). It's really starting to bug me as to why he does this. It also happens when we're making out standing up. Why does he do it? Does it mean anything?
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My boyfriend has a best friend who is a beautiful girl
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 11:48 am
I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 6 months now. He has a best friend that is a girl that is younger than him. She is gorgeous and totally his type. They never dated. They have been friends for over 6 yrs., they met working together. He is super close with her family. He used to eat dinner over there and occasionally visits them. Why didn't they ever date? I think that he may have liked her at one time, but I have never asked him that, because I don't want him to think that I'm jealous or a control freak like his ex girl friend. I just needed someone else's opinion. What do you think about this?
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i still love him
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 11:33 am
okay well i am in the 9th grade and i have liked this guy since i was in 6th grade. we went out for a while in 6th grade then broke up then in 7th grade we went out twice and broke up bc of rumors that were spread. but we always talked and told eachother we still loved eachother. then he just stopped talking to me then last yr [8th grade] we would talk but i didnt klnow how much i acutally liked him then i realized i was still in love with him. we didnt talk for a few months then started talking again and im like dead in love with him. he found out i like him but i dont kniow what to do. like this isnt some kid love, its real . its been almost 4 years. i have no clue what to do. im trying to go out with other people to get over him, but it doesnt work at all.
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Something more exciting
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 11:15 am
Everytime my boyfriend comes over we just watch movies and makeout. Its getting kind of old, is there anything else we can do? (Not anything sexual I mean) Were both 15 so we can't drive yet either. Thanks. <3
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is he gay?
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 10:59 am
he wants to please me.. but he doesnt want to recieve from me. he is waaayyy to nice (opens MY car door when I drive)... we try to do stuff physically and he always is giving to me (without me even asking). but when i try to give to him, he will stop me and say that he doesnt need that from me... just being with him makes him happy. i feel like he's not attracted to me or something (im pretty good looking as he says), but he swears he is & emotionally i know he's attracted to me. even with intercourse he will get soft & have to stop. is he gay because he doesnt want anything from me?! (i know that NO guy would pass up an offer by a girl). am i not pleasing him? i dont know what to think or do!!
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Hard??
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 10:48 am
Okay whenever me and my boyfriend are messing around and i like touch him or poke him down there...he always tells me im making him hard?? im not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing or even what it means..haha cause hes comeing over tonnight soo pleeasee help! thanks :]]
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I've fallen in love with a guy who's already got a girlfrein
Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 8:22 am
I met this guy a few months ago and straight away we knew we were going to be really close mates. A month or two later he told me he loved me and that he knew he had a girlfriend and he loved her but he couldn't help loving me as well. Things happened anyway and a while later him and his girlfriend hit a rough patch and mutually split up (her idea) Anyway, he asked me out and we had an amazing few weeks, but after a long talk i realised he still loved her and told him i wanted him to be happy even if that meant losing him to her again. He is back with her now and we are still very close mates. .. But he is the only guy for me...I really think i am actually in love with him, but i want him to be happy! thats all i care about!
Please help me!
Lovesick Rock-chick
-xXx-
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Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 2:04 am
15/f
Okay, so I like this girl. We went out recently for about 2 weeks and broke it off due to a misunderstanding. (I thought my mom knew about us & she's a homophobic, but she thought I was going out with my OTHER friend.. so it changed things)
She's really nice.. like too nice and it scares me. My past is bothering me. All those mistakes this guy said I did.. won't leave my mind. I'm afraid to be in a relationship and the first time.. I'm afraid to commit!
Because I do like her but we go to different schools! I'm in 10th grade and she's in 8th grade (she's 14) I didn't know she was still in middle school. Is it wrong to date someone not yet in high school?
I have too many thi...
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