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16. first serious relationship. ive been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. sometimes it feels like im just sooo in love and he's the one for me and everything and i cant be without him. but at other times it feels like theres no spark and were just friends and im ready for something new, but at the same time i dont want him with anyone else but me. whats up with that?
and also. we dont do anything! all we ever do is chill at his house watchin tv and makin out. im all for just chillin sometimes but every time? no. the problem is he doesnt want to do anything! theres nothing to do in this town except skate, bowl, movies, shop, and eat. its too cold to go to the go cart track or anything [summer stuff]. obviously were not shopping, neither of us want to skate, he claims he doesnt bowl and isnt interested, and theres no movies out and when there is he says he has no money even though i do and offered to pay cuz i wanna get outta the house but then he says he feels weird about me payin because he should be payin for me, same with goin to eat and he never wants to eat what i eat anyway. im up for like longhorn, apple bees, locos, chilis.. that stuff. "fancy" stuff according to him cuz all he eats is like burger king and yeah... ahh!
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i totally understan what your going trhough and its not like mine refuses to go out to dinner movies and stuff but its because of the money and he prefers staying in the house and watch tv altough you really love him and enjoy being with him you get bored of doing the same stuff but not of him =) ...so we try to go to parties or things like that things that dont require too much money and you can spend a good time like in a coffe shop =)or outdoor activities tell him you want to get out more that you dont wanna spend the whole relationship just chillin ...and if he has a car it's easier to go to places that dont require too much money like i don't know to a park or something but get out of the house ! because by watchin' tv you'll be just talking about the thing your seeing in tv not really talking about interesting stuff ..and when you feel that of no sparks and stuff its normal..because when you have the whole rutine that always hang out at his house you'll be thinking like you could be having more fun with someone else. but obviously when he does something nice for you or go out with him to the movies or something the sparks comes again, its only because life and relationships need excitement so sometims it doesnt mean you don't want to be his girlfriend anymore=)
Diane
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A couple of things here. First if he is boring to you just be friends and even though it would be hard let him date other people and you do the same. Everyone wants the best of both worlds but it just doesn't work that way.
Second, if he was 28 and you were 26 buying him dinner and things he would be considered a really big loser! Just because your a teenager you shouldn't settle for any less than the best! A decent guy would take you out and buy you dinner that is how it should be or at least 50/50. Your time is to important to waste with someone you are not connecting with. Talk to him about it and if it doesn't change move ahead my dear!
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