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16/f.
alright well i really like this kid. ive known him since like 4th grade but i never really talked to him or hung out with. well like 2 weeks ago i went to a party and i started talking to him. he told me he always though i was cute and he doesnt know why he never talked to me. well we hooked up at the party and then we started talking on the phone. he invited me to the movies and we hung out. well then he invited me to another party. i wasnt at home so he called like all my friends and when i talked to him he was like "you should really come cause ill be there and yeah" well i didnt have a ride but he did everything to find me one. well i went there and we just hung out and we were alone in the basement while everyone was sleeping and we hooked up again. i heard him tell his friend in the other room that he really did like me. when he dropped me off that morning he kissed me like he never wanted to let go. well ive talked to him like twice since then and we really didnt talk much. now his phone is shut off and i dont know what to do. i called his friend and he said that he would have my guy call me back and he never did. i dont know if he likes me or what. i really hope he just wasnt using me. he seemed like he really liked me. it wasnt just like he would invite me to just go in a room and fool around. when we hung out we would just like lay on the couch and listen to his ipod and he would sing to me. i think its because of his friend. i liked his friend first but then his friend started being rude to me at the first party and thats when i started liking the guy i like now. his friend might be telling him not to call me. but im really not sure. what should i do?
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talk to him during school, and if that doesn't work maybe let him come to you. You don't want to look desperate, or cliggny, or stalkish, you know what i mean. If none of these work, MAKE hime come to you. maybe throw a bash, SMALL don't let it get out of hand. and then invite him in PERSON, (it'll give you a chance to talk) and he'll have to call you to you know sorta RSVP. then you can tell him "you should come because, ill be there and yeah" if he comes, it all works out, if he doesn't then sorry girl. these are just some suggestions, Hope it works out :)
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I would keep trying to get a hold of him. If or when that happens, tell him how you feel about him and that your worried he used you or something. If you like him, you should tell him. From what you said, it seems like you got really close over the time period. Sooner or later you should be able to see him/talk to him. It does seem like he really likes/liked you. Usually if a guy is using a girl he wouldn't tell his friend that he liked them. But, If the case is that you liked his friend before, maybe he just got jealous or didnt even know how to feel so he decieded to try and avoid the situation and clear his mind. Or maybe its just a really weird cowincidence. Like his phone could be lost or out of battery. Just try and talk to him or see him so you can explain what you feel and how you are worried. Hope this helped
Katie
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In truth, there isn't anything you can do about this situation. He may have liked you and then he might of moved on. Why his phone is not working now, possibly might not be his fault for it. I suppose you could say take this as it is. If he wanted to continue what you two had going on, you need to know he would find a way to talk to you, just as hard as when he was looking for a ride for you for that party. I know doesn't help much but sometimes these things do happen.
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