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HE HAS MY HEART...
16-female
i'll make this short..
ive liked this guy for awhile but he has a girlfriend..whenever we hangout we always flirt and sometimes the things he says and does makes me think that he likes me or is attracted to me but hes always talking about how much he loves his girlfriend. but he has taken over my heart <3 and i cant get over him..id die to be his girl..
this quote explains us perfectly..
dont flirt with me and make me
feel special unless you really mean it.
im so sick of that "lets flirt, but we're
just friends and thats all we are ever
going to be" shit..
i dont know what to do.. i always get mixed signals and im not going to go ask him and make this akward..but i love having his attention it makes me feel like the luckiest girl ever. the thing is ive been waiting 6 months for them to break up but they're still together...
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO..im so lost?
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Well first this is not a nice guy,think about it... he has a girlfriend and he is flirting with another girl.What makes you think he wont do the same thing to you if you go out with him.Another thing he is a taken man and if he likes you why is he still with that girl?So he is not worth it my friend.You should try to date others who can respond to you're feelings and are worth dating.
Remember:Mess with a taken man,you're only asking for trouble
Hope i helped
-Sujayne
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Okay, you may not like this advice but I really think you need to listen. He is totally playing you. He obviously knows that you like him and likes to play with fire when his gf is not around. I have seen this a million times. He is not going to break up with her for you or he already would have. The best thing for you to do is move on. I am sure you are smart and pretty enough to catch the attention of someone who will appreciate and respect you.
I can promise you that the luckiest girl ever did not wait around 6 months for some guy to mess with her head. The luckiest girl ever would have enough self respect to know she deserves better and move on.
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Wow ♥ I think I`ve been through something like this before =) Well you really should try to date other guys, because if you just keep on waiting around for him, you are going to end up waiting for a year or even more. I think you should try to date other guys` that you don`t have feelings for, and then try to get to know them & then later on you will like them. Because that will help you to get over the guy quicker, & before you know it you will be over him, don`t wait around for anyone, because if you two are truley ment to be together, you`d be together by now. Always remember that =) Good Luck ♥ +I hope I helped!
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Hi. Here's a long answer for a long question:
I know this is going to be really, really hard to do, but this is go to be so much less painful for you in the end. You need to stop flirting with this guy.
From what you've told me, he's either an asshole or just clueless. I understand that it's probably really difficult for you to see that right now, (crushes really cloud your judgement...trust me, I know), but you are BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM. If he flirts with you while he's taken, what makes you think if he was dating you, it'd be different?
Whenever he tries to flirt with you, concentrate on how badly he's treating you. If you let yourself respond to him, you're just encouraging him and fueling your crush. But if you ignore the flirting, and just treat him like any other guy, it'll be easier to get over him. I would strongly recommend talking to him about it (something along the lines of "Dude. You have a girlfriend. Stop flirting with me, jackass"), and I think it would really help your situation, but I also get how awkward it would be. It's your choice.
I know your situation sucks...you have my sympathy. Good luck :)
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