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girlfriend maybe moving...


Question Posted Thursday December 28 2006, 4:03 pm

ok sorry this is kinda long

14/m

alright well the other day i was talking to my girlfriend and she told me that she was going out of town for a few days this week, and she didn't kno why. the next day she asked her parents why they were going, and they said to look at houses because they might be moving to that city, so now she's not talking to her parents and stuff....

well, we've been together for a while now, and i don't know what to do...i think about her all the time and i absolutely love her, but i know it's not going to be able to work out when she lives on the other side of the state! so what do i do if she is moving...? should i just end it there or should i stay with her until she moves? i really don't know what i should do...


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xxlilreddivaxx answered Friday December 29 2006, 1:14 am:
awwwwwww this is sad! :( I think you should stay with her....who knows maybe they wont find a house and they will end up not moving. Also, maybe ur gf should talk to her parents about the situation, they might understand her!!! If she does move, then know that everything happens for a reason, and it was probably for the better good. You could still try to be with her, but just know that you are 14 and still young. This is teenage love, who knows what the future holds for you?

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Flaggal answered Thursday December 28 2006, 6:20 pm:
you could:

-ask her what she wants to do

-handle the long-distance relationship

-end it

i really think -if you love her- you should definitly keep dating her becuase you'll never know if it was meant to be.

I HOPED I HELPED
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iloveaar answered Thursday December 28 2006, 6:15 pm:
some of the people that i know that go through the same ur going through stay with relatives =) maybe if her parents are close to their family they'll really see that she doesn't want to move because of other reasons than just you because parents might think that 14 year old love isnt really love and surely youll find someone new ...but if she really explains them that beside you as a reason for stying i don't know school friends etc..she can live with an aunt or something i had friends who had done that
hope i helped =)

Diane

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whoaxbabe answered Thursday December 28 2006, 6:08 pm:
I don`t think you should break up with her. If you really like her, then stay with her & see what happens. She might not even move. A lot of people say they`ll move, but never do. Even if she does move, just stay together & try to see eachother on occasion. If you really do love her, then you`d be a lot happier staying with her even if she moves than breaking up with her & being depressed.

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xo_minela answered Thursday December 28 2006, 5:33 pm:
awee, well you should deff. stay with her. Don`t brake up with her. =) Sometimes people say their going to move & go look at houses but they end up not moving, my friend had to go to Texas because her parent`s said they were moving & they wanted to look at houses, but turns out she`s not moving at all. Which is a long way from now. But anyway, you should talk to her & tell her to talk to her parent`s and tell them how much she want`s to stay. & just try to spend alot of time with her! =) I hope I helped & Good Luck ♥

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