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15/f
Okay, so I like this girl. We went out recently for about 2 weeks and broke it off due to a misunderstanding. (I thought my mom knew about us & she's a homophobic, but she thought I was going out with my OTHER friend.. so it changed things)
She's really nice.. like too nice and it scares me. My past is bothering me. All those mistakes this guy said I did.. won't leave my mind. I'm afraid to be in a relationship and the first time.. I'm afraid to commit!
Because I do like her but we go to different schools! I'm in 10th grade and she's in 8th grade (she's 14) I didn't know she was still in middle school. Is it wrong to date someone not yet in high school?
I have too many things on my mind.
I've got this crush on this guy too. I do quite enjoy attention that guys have been giving me. (I never got it before.. so you know how it is. It makes you feel good and stuff)
But I'm afraid of acting on something. Like if a guy flirts and I may flirt back thing.
I wouldn't cheat as in kissing or going on dates with guys.
I don't know.. and now she wants to get back together.
I dont know what to do. I'll love a good relationship where the person doesn't constantly bring me down but the kindness.. is just making me feel really weird. I dont understand how a person could care so much or be so nice. Am I just weird?
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hey i really don't have anything against gay people in fact i have a lot of friends lol well in my opinion your way to young to be really decide of what do you prefer.
it's okay to try anything so you can be sure, but really follow this advice, do not let too many people know your preferences, because if later when you grow up you decide that you don't wanna date girls anymore , it would be difficult to get guys then ,cause of all the prejudjments and stuff so try and see how it goes and you really can like guys i don't see whats the problem
and its okay to date people younger than you but i think this girl is also very young and either you or her can be confuse and you don't wanna ruin your "social status" or hers so please be careful =) and about your mom,please understand that this should be something really hard for her to handle so give it time until you really know what you want because most of people go through this stage when you met a girl who's soooo nice to you that you can confuse it with love or something ....but if you see the same happens with guys so you really have to be decided in what you want before getting your mom so worried about
hope i helped take care and let me know what happend =)
Diane
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Your question kind of confused me but no it's not wrong to go out with someone younger than you. From what I can understand your mom's a homophobe and you broke up with a girl because of that reason and this girl wants to get back.
I say follow your heart. I know, cheesy. But what do you want? If you want to go back out with this girl, do it deviously and just keep it a secret from your mom until you can get out of the house (18yrs old)
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