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I am too shy to dance without getting drunk... help?


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 2:15 pm

i cant dance unless im drunk. ive tried and i just freeze up and get really insecure. im going to my bfs prom and i have to dance sober. what do i do!

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emergency contraception and now what happens?!


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 1:42 pm

ok so i took emergency contraception like a week and a half ago...after 5 days of taking it my period came ...but heres the thing....

i first got my period on february 7th until february 12th ...on february 12th i had sex...and on february 16th i got a condom slip...so i was scared and eventho i know probably ovulation havent occured by that time,,,i took emergency contraception on the 16th.. after around 5 days..i got my period again ! i know this pill can cause your period to be early...so i had it and ended on february 24th....then on the 25 the period ended apparently i had no bleeding etc...BUT on the 26th (yesterday) i had sex and i started bleeding ! i dont know if this is realted to the fact ive had sex about 8 times ...

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Apartment or Dorm?


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 12:41 pm

I'm a commuter student at my university. I live at home with my mom and my grandparents. In the Fall, I plan to move out. I will be an upperclassmen in the Fall. So, I have two choices: dorm or apartment. Which should I pick? This is what I've come up with so far:

I am working on campus and I'm in a sorority, so sometimes, it gets late and I'm still at school. Having a dorm would make life easier since I wouldn't have to drive home every night. I wouldn't get home very late on weeknights. I'll have privacy and space, which is what I need. I know that I'll have a roomate, but it's completely different. I'm also involved in many clubs on campus. So, it's convenient for me to just walk over to anything I need. I also think that ...

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My Friend Likes My Crush!


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 12:26 pm

A while ago, I told my friend about a crush that I had. Since I was afraid that she would freak out, I told her that I didnt like him any more but I do. Now I learned that she likes him a little too!!! I even just had a dream about him. Should I tell her that I still like him a lot or let her have him?

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15 vs. almost 19


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 12:22 pm

Okay i am 15 years old and am a female. And i was hanging out with my friends and i met my friends friend Donny. He turns 19 next week. He has a son who turns 2 in october. i've hung out with him starting back a few months ago. But i do like him. Which i know is really bad...but no one can help feelings. And my bestfriend is trying to figure out if he likes me back...everyone thinks him and i would be cute together but there is many faults.. age for one. 2. the son. 3. some of the friends we share i am not aloud to hangout with. 4. he has some issues at home. but i cant help but be attracted to him. I just want to hear peoples opinions on how you guys think this would work out. Should i go for it, or should i drop it?

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Told him i cheated but i didnt!


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 12:13 pm

Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half have been going through a really rough time in our relationship. We have been trying to take some time apart in hopes that it will help. Unfortunetly it has done the exact opposite because he has been thinking that i am going around with some other guy. I haven't though, i have barely left my house. And now I have permanently destroyed the relationship i think because I completely freaked out and lost it. i told him that i did sleep with some one even though i didnt. i dont know why i even said that to him but now i dont know what to do. Is there anything at this point that i can even do?

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How to say no


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 10:13 am

17/f

Hi- this is kind of the opposite of a normal relationship question. Basically, there's this guy who likes me at school. He gets sort of tongue tied when I'm around and my friends say he likes me, and that he'll try to ask me out soon. The problem is, I'm actually not interested in dating. This guy is great in a lot of ways but I've never been on a date and I'm just not interested atm. how do I say no if he asks me out, without hurting his feelings?

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Should I text him back??


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 10:10 am

So last night I was at a dance it was kinda boring but the my group went to dinner and around ten I decided to text the guy I liked who said he couldn't come to the dance bc he switched schools like a week before the dance and so I went some other guy but I couldn't stop thinking about the guy I liked so I texted him and the whole night no response and I felt stupid now this morning I wake up and it says he texted me back at 2 am well I fell asleep at one so now I feel even more stupid what and when should I text him bc last time a while ago I texted him back in the morning around 12 and he didn't respond after that should I wait till tonight or what?

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Friendship hurts


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 8:27 am

Why does friendship hurt?

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What's This Called?


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 8:13 am

I have this experience recently. And I felt something. My sister said it's deja vu but my mom said that it's jamais vu. The feeling is that I feel that I've experienced it before and I feel like crying. Is it deja vu, jamais vu, or something else?

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Cheating boyfriend!


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 6:22 am

okay so I have been dating this guy for the past three months and I recently found out he was cheating on me! He told the girl he made out with that he was single and that I was just his friend! I found this out cause i incidentally talked to the girl.I really got angry when I found out he had been lying to me all this while and I immediately broke up with him. when i confronted him about the whole thing he had to accept it but then for the first five hours after confrontation he was all like "i cant believe i could lie so well.." but after that he said sorry and kept on texting and calling me up! he wanted me back and told me he was very sorry and all and he actually spoke to some of his friends (who i know too) about the whole t...

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Asking that guy out...


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 1:50 am

16/F

So, I asked a question a while back about liking this guy who's the same age as my sister (14) and I think I officially like him because I can't get him out of my head. Every time I see his name on my chat list, I get super happy and I've talked to him for 12 hours straight before. We have so much in common and we agree on a lot of things. We went to a play together (with my other friend, M) And she was urging me to flirt with him, problem is... I'm super shy and I just couldn't do it. The entire time, though, his arm was touching mine and my heart was pounding like crazy!
So, I've decided that I want to try asking him out... And this weekend I'm having a movie night, he's invited. I was thinking of trying to do i...

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What Do The Five Dots Mean


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 1:20 am

I sent my girlfriend a text message. In the text message, I asked "Are we
still boyfriend and girlfriend." A couple of minutes later, I didn't get a
response, so I sent another message saying "I would really appreciate a
response." She sent this reply " yes David..... I have to say its kind of
getting old having to tell you over and over again.. I m not sure why you
worry so much.. I have a class now..so I'll talk to you later "

Question: She used excessive periods after saying “yes david”. She used
five periods after that sentence. She only used two periods in her other
sentences. She put extra space between "yes david....." and the ...

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multiple personalities?


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 12:37 am

there are so many personalities that i wish to acquire. but when i look at it from a big picture, i think its impossible. it might be a little confusing, sorry. i talked to my mom about it and she said i should just be myself and be who I am and not try to be anyone else.

i GET THAT. i'm not trying to change myself and be somebody else.. i'm just trying to try different personalities out and be different.

for example. i want to have multiple personalities like bad-ass, innocent and shy, loud and social, artistic.

i'm so sorry if this is confusing. i just dont know how to put it in words. maybe this will help. i love people watching. i love observing things. (doesnt just have to be people) when i...

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I feel like i should have figured out who I am already... I am 18!


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 12:26 am

is it normal to feel like you have no clue who you are?

i'm a teenage 18 year old girl still in high school but have 3 months left until i'm on my own.

i thought high school was supposed to be the time when you experience who you really are.. well if thats the case, then that was a waste for me. i still have no clue who i am or what my interests are. my high school is very clique-y. theres the popular crowd, geeky crowd, jocks, band geeks, etc. I honestly don't fit into any of those groups.

I dont even have a group of friends. I have 2 best friends. my girl best friend, and my boyfriend. i spend every minute with them in school. of course i talk to others, but not like i do with my best friends.<...

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How do i make him think & follow his heart & not his moms words?


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 12:23 am

Ok my bf is going off to school and we had plans to make it work and stay together then... his mom stepped in! She told him I was going to be a distraction from following his dreams and he didnt need a gf. We love each other so much and mean the world to each other we dont want to lose each other but hhe keeps listening to her over his heart and what he wants. I will be there supporting him and making his dreams come true but they keep putting stuff in his head and not letting him think for himself. Please help me IDK what to do and Im about to lose the only thing that makes me happy all around. We are perfect for each other minus her but I know she is his mom.

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How do I fix this anxiety?


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 12:13 am

18/female

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 7 months now.

we had a bad start to our relationship. lots of fights. almost ended our relationship a few times. but we managed to work it out. we are doing great now. we are both really working hard to make this relationship work. we are madly in love with each other. we have been talking about the future and made plans. we have also been talking about marriage and where we want to live together. i know it might be too soon to think about the future like that but we ARE soul mates. absolutely in love.. :)

my problem?

i get anxiety over this relationship. when i'm not with him, my heart races and i get anxiety.. i get thoughts abou...

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i lost my way


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 12:09 am

i have this guy i like he was my best friend i never told he that but he always told i was his he would text me everyday over winter break but once we got back to school it stoped and he started ignoreing me and not sitting with me and stuff like that people would say he liked me but i wasnt sure and know im certin but i like like but im not sure he does we dont really talk but idk what to do

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sad feelings. is this ok?


Posted Sunday February 27 2011, 12:03 am

18/f

my life is average i guess.

short story on my life- i live with my dad. my mom got a new job and moved across the world. but my parents are still together. just dont live together. i have a boyfriend. been dating for almost 7 months. i'm in love with him. we had a rocky start (many fights) but we worked it out and things are better now. I don't have a lot of friends. 1 best friend and a few other friends. I play a sport. My grades are good. (mostly A's and B's) I'm interested in a bunch of things varying from photography, art, listening to music, video production, cooking, writing etc.

so basically. my life is average. its ok. except... i find myself sad a lot. there are times when i just ...

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How do I talk about this?


Posted Saturday February 26 2011, 10:02 pm

I'm having a little bit of trouble. A couple of months ago, I smoked (to get high) because i had never done it before and I just wanted to experience once what it was like. I have not done it since, and i do not plan on ever doing it again. My girlfriend got mad at me because i did it on a night that i couldn't talk to her - she had her sorority initiation. So she was upset with me. This weekend i was supposed to go visit a few friends at a school up north and i had to back out last minute because i have a big test on monday. She was also going to visit a few friends and she rightfully went. Anyways, she decided to smoke last night because she had never tried and she and her best friend promised each other that they would try together. Now ...

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