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15 vs. almost 19
Okay i am 15 years old and am a female. And i was hanging out with my friends and i met my friends friend Donny. He turns 19 next week. He has a son who turns 2 in october. i've hung out with him starting back a few months ago. But i do like him. Which i know is really bad...but no one can help feelings. And my bestfriend is trying to figure out if he likes me back...everyone thinks him and i would be cute together but there is many faults.. age for one. 2. the son. 3. some of the friends we share i am not aloud to hangout with. 4. he has some issues at home. but i cant help but be attracted to him. I just want to hear peoples opinions on how you guys think this would work out. Should i go for it, or should i drop it?
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I have to admit, when I was 15 I dated a 19 year old. hes now the father of my child. he is emotionally preoccupied now with things that maybe another 19 year old could handle. you coild be the 'most mature 15 year old' but I dont see this workin at allll. DROP IT
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It wouldn't have been too bad if he didn't have a kid. You don't want to get involved with a guy who is 19 and has a son. You're 15 and it's just gonna be a lot harder for you. It's ok to be attracted to him but I would just keep it at that because I don't think it would work out and it would just cause more problems.
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Clearly this won't work out and you should drop it.
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This guy is 19, If you two were to date you put him in hot water. It is Illegal, He is an adult you are a minor. If you two were to ever have any sexual contact he could be charged with statutory rape, If he was ever charged...You both possibly leave a two year old without a father. I suggest you find someone under the age of 18 who does not have a child.
This guy also has a 2 year old and the last thing you need right now is the responsibility of also caring for the child. Although you are not the child's mother being with the father you would be the co-parent. You are not ready, That's the fact.
My best advice: Find someone that is more suitable
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Reading this question, I was like okay okay okay...WHAT? at the sentence "He has a son who turns 2 in October." There's a lot of things wrong with this situation and you know them because you said them yourself!
He's nineteen, has a son, you're fifteen and dating him is considered illegal...
Look, I understand you like him a lot. I've liked guys that I just couldn't be with. I even took the "I don't care" approach and dated one guy only to be heartbroken in the end. Once you get involved it's much harder not to let go, so leave now and don't turn back. Your feelings for him will eventually go away.
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My sister had a similar situation. The guy is 25 and she just turned 18 in october.
First of all, before doing ANYTHING, you wait until you are 15. At least he cant go to jail for you being underage,
but your parents can still send him to jail for sagitary rape until you are 18.
I'd be careful. My sister's boyfriend also has a son that is two.
It will be hard on her, so I'm guessing it'll be fucking hard as HELL for you.
I'd wait a little while, until you are more mature and can handle a baby, and things, if you really want to go for him.
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