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Told him i cheated but i didnt!
Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half have been going through a really rough time in our relationship. We have been trying to take some time apart in hopes that it will help. Unfortunetly it has done the exact opposite because he has been thinking that i am going around with some other guy. I haven't though, i have barely left my house. And now I have permanently destroyed the relationship i think because I completely freaked out and lost it. i told him that i did sleep with some one even though i didnt. i dont know why i even said that to him but now i dont know what to do. Is there anything at this point that i can even do?
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Go tell him you only said it cause you were mad. try to make him understand you hardly went out of the house and were quite busy for cheating on him. If he doesnt trust you then I think you should not be with him anymore. If he doesnt trust you then how will he love you unconditionally??
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i think you should just try to explain to him why you said what you said. hopefully he will understand and relize u did it just to make sure he still cared about you and u were angry with him.
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Be honest with him. From what I have seen, most relationships get destroyed because of lies. It won't work if he's not honest with you and you're not honest with him.
It might not work out between you guys but at least tell him the truth. He'll probably be upset whether he believes you or not so be ready for that and don't expect much to come out of it.
Good luck!
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Break up with him so you can save him the pain of you making other stupid decisions.
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You have to talk to him and tell him that it was a mistake for you to say that you cheated on him when you really didn't. You have to be completely honest with him. Tell him in a sincere way so that he can possibly believe you. Show him by your ways of caring for him and about his feelings. If he feels hurt say
"I know I probably hurt you when I said I cheated on you but the truth is I only said that because I completely lost my mind! And I'm really sorry and hopefully you can believe me"
Then give him time to think about it. Don't talk to him just give him space. He will give you his answer from there on. I hope things work out and he believes you and forgives you too!
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Yes you can do something, you can tell him the truth. Two things can happen once you try to confess. Either a) He won't believe you that you were lying or b) He'll believe you but will be upset with you for lying in the first place. Although both sound horrible, hope for B because eventually his anger will subside and you two can try to work things out. All you can do now is tell the truth, explain why you lied, and hope for the best.
P.S. Have someone vouch for you that you rarley have gone out like your parents or a friend.
Good luck!
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Yes you can tell him the truth.
Also, tell him that you did it because you were pissed that he would even think you would screw around with some other guy, and wanted to show him how much it hurt to be accused and be TOLD that you cheated. Because that is why you did it, right?
If that doesn't help, then give it some time.
He'll either come around or move on, you'll never know unless you try.
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