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My Friend Likes My Crush!
A while ago, I told my friend about a crush that I had. Since I was afraid that she would freak out, I told her that I didnt like him any more but I do. Now I learned that she likes him a little too!!! I even just had a dream about him. Should I tell her that I still like him a lot or let her have him?
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I went through the exact same situation a year back. I must say it is a very complicated and delicate situation. And sometimes very confusing too. First of all, you should go and tell your friend about your feelings for this guy. I think your friend should know about it no matter how hard it is for you to tell her. Try discussing it with her and laughing it off, if she is a good friend then she will realise it's not worth a fight with you. And as far as the guy is concerned, if he pursues one of you then go ahead (but then make sure both of you are cool with the other going out with him otherwise trust me guys are not worth a fight, i had had a fight with my bff just because of my crush and it resulted into a mess) but if he doesnt then you guys should not try to fight over it.
Hope I helped.
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Xoxo.
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I would tell her how you feel about him. If she was a good friend, she wouldn't flip out on you or get extremely mad.
Neither of you need to have him, but if she really wants him that bad, I'd let her have him and try to get over him because you don't want to lose a friend over a boy. Friends are way better than boys.
So just tell her and try working something out. Good luck!
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I know how you feel and i know that you dont want to hurt your friend. Has this ever happened before because if it has then your friend dosent really respect your feelings. Yes i think you should tell her because either day you guys are friends and if your as good friends as i think you are she'll understand and just talk about it dont be afraid because then you'll nver be truly satisfide.
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I think you should because she's your friend and she wants someone who is honest with her. She doesn't want you to hide your feelings. Once she knows you like him you both can decide on what to do from there. I think you shouldn't have a challenge over him with your friend. If she really likes him let her have him and be a good friend. I'm sure you both can make something work out. She will value your friendship more if you tell her and then figure out if she likes him A lot or a little. I hope this helps!
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