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uhhhhhhhhh
Posted Tuesday May 1 2007, 5:24 pm
uhm well one of my really really good guyfriends just confessed he has a crush on me & wants to know who i like. he's not like FORCING me or anything but he's obviously curious.
well i feel horrible, because he knows i like someone else (not him) but what he DOESNT know is that it's one of his "friends" (it's in quotes because my crush isn't very nice to him anymore).
do you think i should just tell him? or just keep it a secret? i dont know which is worse - the curiosity eating his brain away or how hurt he will feel if i ever tell him!
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he moved???????
Posted Tuesday May 1 2007, 4:13 pm
oka there this boy that i liked for months and i havent seen him for like 3 weeks it seems like.Anywayz i just found out that he had move and i was so schocked and everything. NOw i dont know what to do i know i should get over him just like all my friends say but i just cant i mena i want to but then agian i dont.I just dont know what to do.
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Tired Of The Fighting
Posted Tuesday May 1 2007, 1:24 pm
First let me start off by saying i have been with my boyfriend since October 23rd 2005. I'm 15 yrs old , and he just turned 18. My parents let him move in the 3rd month we were together, so we have been living with each other for awhile. I cheated on him a couple of times when we first got together and everytime we get in arguments he brings it up. I'm really in love with him , when im not around him for one second i have this feeling of lonelyness. We fight all the time , he always says i start them but sometimes i dont. Ive been trying really hard not to start an argument but it doesnt seem like hes putting in any effort. He always calls me names even if we just get into a disagreement. And theres been a couple times hes hurt me physicall...
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am i really a slut?
Posted Tuesday May 1 2007, 5:18 am
im 14, neerly 15 nad a girl and was jst wanting to ask if i am a slut. coz a few gurls in my school keep callin my that, and a few boys. well a few months ago i had my first experiance with sex. i was at a boys house with two of his mates and we started messing around, and i gave my first blowjobs to them. and cuple of weeks later i had sex with one of them and now were going out as a cuple, but still hanging out with his mates. some of d gurls in ma school hav had sex too but they r callin me a slut, n ma bf ses it sumtyms when im going down on him. i dont get it coz ppl dont call those girls sluts. am i really a slut?
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Every time I try...
Posted Tuesday May 1 2007, 5:14 am
I was going to ask her and tell her about my feelings to her I get scared and clummsy. when that time came last two months ago it didnt happen. 'cause Nacy said "Tony called me and left a message saying he needs to talk to me about something. Sigh...great i think he still likes me. And that Aaron guy i told you about who flirts with me at work ask if he can go to my class trip next week and Joey called and still ask me if i want to go out with him. Whats up with the guys asking me out?" i said "I dont know it happens" my mind ran i was just about to tell her how i feel and she tells me this. now what i dont want to the other person who is crushing on her. plus I'm her best Gal friend and i dont know what to do now. she ...
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Does she like me?
Posted Tuesday May 1 2007, 2:20 am
I called my friend Sara and i ask her out on the phone. i told her that i had a dream about her that we went out. she said it was romanic. i ask her if she will go out with me and she said she'll think about it. a week later i ask her if she thougt of it yet and she reply she'll think about it. its been a month and no word about it. i vist her and my other friend too last week and i put my arms around them. we all 3 are great friends and we all 3 hit each other for fun. and when Sara and Angel hit me right after, I put my arms around there shoulders i said, "i love when girls hit me" and Sara got grossed out and push away my arm. why did she get grossed out? i ketp on leaning on her and she trun to ask me why i'm doing that i said just because. so does she see me as a brother?
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WON'T STOP CALLING
Posted Tuesday May 1 2007, 2:11 am
I'm completely fed up- I made it clear to this one guy that I'd been dating that I was really busy and was going to move out soon, etc., etc. I did not ever tell him that I wanted to stop dating, but it should be clear due to these signs:
-He called 3x in one day, I didn't return his calls.
-He calls and leaves a message sometimes, asking me to go hang out with him somewhere..and again, I DON'T call back.
Today, he left a message saying something like this:
..it's a nice day, let's go to the beach after class. I'm a little worried, you haven't called me in a week.
Yes, I haven't called him in a week. When I did, it was only to say i was too busy. POINT BLANK>
HE...
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Jealousy? Or should i say something
Posted Tuesday May 1 2007, 12:04 am
My BF and I have been together like 3 months (we're 25). I have to work 9-5pm but he can pretty much choose his hours and tended to work til about 10pm most nights. So after about a month of gettin together he changed his hours to start earlier so that he could finish work at a similar time to me.
Now it seems he has slipped back into gettin up really late and starting really late and has come to expect that i will go home and have a sleep after work, so that I can stay up til when HE gets tired about 2am... but i cant keep staying up til 2am when I have to be up at 7am... even if i do have a sleep before.
Should I either bring this up with him or just go to bed at 11.30pm (when i feel tired) and see how he li...
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True About girls liking Sex??
Posted Monday April 30 2007, 9:04 pm
Is it true that most girls like sex and thinking about it as much as guys do, like they love doing sexual things as much as guys do so if you just ask them they will most likely say yes??
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worried
Posted Monday April 30 2007, 8:40 pm
I'll try and make a long story ,short.
Theres this boy, we kinda hooked up and other stuff [if ya know what i mean] over the summer and he knew i liked him and i think he liked me.
Well,people found out about our hookup and we kinda stopped talking and just didnt act the same around eachother ,i still like him but he has a girlfriend.Now at my school,alot of the guys act like they dont like me because im never mean to them and i let them say whatever they want and so alot of people make alot of jokes about me.
His best friend told me that Josh[the boy i like]
really used to like me and says he doesnt like me anymore but he still talks about me all the time and his best friend thinks he still likes me but just say...
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my sisters boyfriend
Posted Monday April 30 2007, 8:28 pm
ok so my sister is goin out with this guy but shes denying it..i think shes embarresed or something but its really obvious.i know she is so dont tell me mabye shes not..ok the thing is he never actually said there going out to me.so its kinda like i dont know. but ok i like him alot...is that bad?? i mean like since there supposivly not going out?
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So theres this guy named tony and i really like him.
Posted Monday April 30 2007, 8:18 pm
Ok so theres this guy names Tony and i really really really like him. But heres the thing im friends with his sister. but like when i have softball games he come because his sister is playing right next to me. So when i hurt my leg he comes over like 20 mins after and like took a woofle bat and smacked my noisy with it and then did it again. like everyone thinks i flit with him and that he flirt with him. I want to ask him if he likes me but im not sure if i should. Like when he stairs at me i smile at him and he smiles back. When i told him nice game he started smiling and was like no i sucked. and like i get nervous around him. so please help what should i do ask him for not ask him??
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hinding their true feelings
Posted Monday April 30 2007, 8:08 pm
how can it not be awkward between me and my best friend. god i like him so much and i wish i could let him know that but somehow i feel like ill get hurt again. its just i think he may feel something for me too but a while back when i told him how i felt it was not possible for him to like me. but now he can like me because he is over that situation he was in. and im not talking about another girl, im talking about him thinking he was attracted to guys. but hes made it clear that hes not anymore. hes strait. but yea the only problem is that he has always been afraid of commitment. and he wrote a poem about heartbreak and i think it was about me. its so sad.... but yea idk it seems like he really likes me too. but is he scared like me? help please and thank you. 14/ f btw.
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want to be single for now.
Posted Monday April 30 2007, 8:05 pm
I don't want to like anyone, but I cannot seem to help being attracted to certain guys and flirting too much with them.
I don't like leading people on, any advice on how to keep my hormones under control?
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guys are complete idiots.
Posted Monday April 30 2007, 7:53 pm
16/f.
i liked this guy and he liked me. me n him go to the same school.
we both live "out of zone" for our school and should be going elsewhere.
well, he called me recently and told me that he didnt want a relationship with me because of lacrosse and his grades.
but come to find out, he lied to me and hes going out with one of my friends that goes to the school that we should be going to.
i really liked him and i spent my sweet 16 depressed over him. should i confront him about it? call him and tell him we need to talk? or should i just let it be, seeing as he's been ignoring me lately?
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Posted Monday April 30 2007, 7:51 pm
ok so i have this major crush and i told him i was gonna call him later on tonight [like soon!] just to talk and stuff and i never talked on the phone with him and i HATE the phone...im so scared of awkwardness and silences and of being boring....i just dont know what to say and all and hem ight be with his friends now and stuff so it cant be one of those deep...whatever...talk for hours conversations....I NEED HELP!
[16/f...hes 17]
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jhklg.
Posted Monday April 30 2007, 6:24 pm
see, theres this boy, hes like one of my best friends, and well ive known him for about 3 years, and ive liked him for about 2 years, and he likes me...
but theres this other boy, and he likes me too, and hes like my perfect match, were exactly alike, we like the same things, and all this great stuff..
but.. what should i do?
best friend, or perfect match.
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guy confusion
Posted Monday April 30 2007, 6:22 pm
15/f. i really like this one guy who is in 8th grade and i'm in 9th grade. we hang out a lot outside of school in this one group of friends. i'm just confused because sometimes i think he likes me and my one friend in 8th grade thinks that he likes me too, its just that he has a girlfriend! so i don't know what to do. like we hang out because we are friends but its hard not to flirt with him. and once i left my friends decided to play a game of would you rather with him. this is what happened:
my friend: would you rather go out with ashley or katie (me)?
my crush: well i'd go out with ashley, but i'd rather go out with katie.
and this got me really happy because this other girl ashley is always flirting ...
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He Likes Me but-
Posted Monday April 30 2007, 6:08 pm
This guy likes me. And Im not sure if I like him or not. Every other day I see him @ school..with my best friend. We talk. But you see the problem is, that whenever he talks.
He only talks to my best friend (who is a girl) like about himself, or stories fun humor stuff. He told her that he LIKES me and that he wanted to go to prom with me and hes going to ask me out soon dunno when though. Anyway Im just confused and uncomfortable because he talks to my best friend and hes always himself around her. Gives her all this attention leaving me just out of no where.
But around me he only asks me questions he talks about me (and thats what makes me feel weird is because he wont be himself around me). He does act a little embrarasse...
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Technically, he didn't cheat...
Posted Monday April 30 2007, 5:32 pm
Okay. So I'm 19 and I dated a guy for about a year, and he broke up with me in January because he thought I cheated on him (I didn't, by the way). I then went on a 2-month visit to another state. A couple days after I left, he told me that he was still in love with me and wanted me to come home. When I did come home, we got back together, and he told me that in the couple of days we were broken up, he had fingered a girl that I used to talk to (she and I weren't friends, more of just acquaintances). I didn't really think much of it -- I mean, we weren't together and he was kind of rebounding anyway.
The other day, he accidentally let it slip that he hadn't just fingered the girl, but he had started having sex with her an...
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