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I'm so confused...
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 8:55 pm
ok, normally i am good at love dilemmas, but this one stumps me.
I have been with a guy that I really do love for 7 months. Before him, I dated a guy a state away from me. Now, my ex bf was very caring, nice, etc...or so it seemed. We talked through webcam and instant messages. Well, he wanted to see me on webcam one day and I guess he didnt like what he saw, so the next day he txted me and said it was over. I didnt love him, but i was infatuated with him and that just broke my heart. I got over him and months later i found my current bf. Well, just now while I was on the phone with my bf, I got an instant message from my ex. And it kind of feels like those feelings could still be there. My question is, is it something I sho...
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Will he wait? PLZ Help im in need to know.
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 8:51 pm
okay theres this guy i go to school with and have because well rather bestfriends with him.
yesturday i was talking to him and he said he was thinking about going out with me. ((i have liked him the whole time he's been here for 3 years.))
But the only thing is im not aloud to have a real go out on dates boyfriend(until im 16) which is what he wants. I told him about the sixteen thing and he said he would wait...he turns 16 3 days after me in december..thats 6 MONTHS!!. He wants us to talk and keep close friends and he said he wants to be my first REAL boyfriend.
But just a few months ago he said that he tells girls what they want to here to get what he wants.
The only problem is in october h...
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This guy I like...again...
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 8:21 pm
Okay theres this guy I've liked all of grade 7 and he's in my class and we flirt CONSTANTLY.We had this friends with benifits thing once...(less than doing it more than making out).he's in the popular click I'm...not but I have lots of friends.the guy I like's friend said to him if he goes out with me he'll never talk to him again.
Anyways after out F.W.B. thing the whole school found out while he was at camp...so he got back today nad was PISSED well we fixed it up...he's not mad as long as I tell everyone it's not true I got dared to say it.So I agreeed to.cuz he'll lose his friends cuz they're really superfishal.
I am 99.999999999% sure he likes me.I've asked him out (it was after his friend told him no...
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HELP
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 7:57 pm
ok so i was in summer school and this kid i dont even know started talking to me when no one else did and well i mean he seems really cool and all and he's not that cute but not that ugly but he talks to me all the time and like everytime i looked at him today he was either doing something or looking at me do you think he likes me also i was wearing this low cut shirt and him and this really cute kidd kept looking down my shirt it was kinda funny cause everytime they would talk to me they would look at my boobs haha well anywho thats not the point just so you know i'm not the type of girl guys usualy like
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Sortof a love triangle going on...need help!
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 7:50 pm
15/M
Well, on one hand, there's my ex who I still love alot, and she's just everything I could ever want. She knows I still love her and she loves me still, too. Only problem is that she isn't sure that she wants a relationship right now.
On the other hand, there's this girl I met through a mutual friend and we clicked as soon as we met. We both love each other [Yeah, actual love, not just liking] and we're perfect for each other. Problem here is that she lives in Ohio and I live in New York. Now, we both hate long distance relationships so that's not an option.
I really love both of these girls, but there's obstacles in the way of both. What should I do?
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bestfriends new boyfriend.
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 7:13 pm
ohkay so my friend kelly just recently introduced me to one of her friends nick. The first time i talked to him i knew their was something about him. he made me smile all the time and we would spend hours on the phone every nite talked about stupid random stuff but i loved every minute of it. so the other nite i was talking to him and hes like hey hold on and he answered the phone and hes like hey ill call you backk. i asked who it was and he said kelly. i knew kelly liked nick so i was like ohh you should call her then ill go, but he was like noo i wanna talk to you. i knew kelly would really want to talk to him so i was like no its fine i have to go ne ways. so today i was online and kelly told me that nick asked her out and she said yes....
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Confusing crush =/
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 5:43 pm
14/f.
I like this guy, on a scale of 1-10 i like him about a 7 or 8. We'll call him "ben". K, i have NO IDEA how he feels about me. I'm a terrible flirter, I'm not exactly pretty, but there was a myspace bulletin about telling the person who posted it exactly what you felt. I tried to be as honest as I could manage without absolutely embarrassing myself. So I said:
"i think you're funny, cool, cute, and i think you're musically intelligent.
uhm, i think you're absolutely amazing.
and i think you think i'm a total freak now,
and you're going to laugh at this."
So I reposted the bulletin that way he would reply, and he did :]
he said "well... i think ur...
hilari...
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what does he want from me???
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 5:25 pm
17/f
ok so i started a job back in march and met this guy there. The girls who work there would talk about him alot, because almost all of them liked him and he had hooked up with 2 of them and liked another. He sounded like trouble, but he was just so cute i couldn't resist. To get to the point we started hanging out outside of work alot and one day he asked me out we went out for about a month and one day he texts me saying "can we not go out anymore but still be together because i dont have time for a girlfriend and it doesnt feel like were even going out" i was sooo confused because things were fine with us. After our breakup we still hungout and acted like boyfriend and girlfriend just without the title, i gues...
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mom help
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 5:22 pm
well i'm close with my mom. and i can tell her when my boyfriend and i get into stupid fights or stuff like that. i can talk to her about how to handle those type of situations and get the advice i need. she's not the type that'll tell me what i want to hear, she'll flat out tell me whose wrong in the situation. the only problem is that my boyfriend and i have had a lot of stupid fights and now i don't think my mom likes him very much..he said that all his friends mom's and ex-gfs moms love him and i don't understand why my mom doesn't =( it's like ever since i told her everything she just doesn't trust him or something. i really want her to like him and have trust in him because there is no reason she shouldn't. what should i do? we h...
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talking with parents.
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 5:17 pm
17/f
okay so i've been together with my boyfriend for a little over a year and i have a huge problem. i still feel awkward talking to his parents. now i am not an outgoing person to begin with. i feel bad because he is outgoing, he is always talking to my parents or my brother and i just can never think of what to say to them. he says that his parents like me they just don't like that i don't talk to them, it's nothing personal towards them i'm just not very good with talking to adults in general. i need help!! thank you.
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which one?
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 4:43 pm
i have a couple of guys friends and lately they've all been obnoxiously hitting on me. uhhhg. one even asked me out but i said no and he got mad cause he thought i liked one of my other guy friends. which i do. but i cant go out with one of them with out making them all mad at me. should i just wait out their annoying obsession with me being single all my life or do i make them mad and potentially break off all my friendships with all of them?
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lost sex appeal?
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 3:34 pm
I am 47 years old male and dated a woman of 34 for the last two years. Since we do live in different countries, we see each other about 4 moths a year. She is really nice and has the perfect temperament for us to have a good relationship.
However, since of late, I could not find a good erection t have sex with her. I performed oral sex on her, and what ever she does become ineffective for my erection.
I could have my blow jobs, and more importantly, I have had sex with other two other women since this problem started.
Obviously nothing wrong with me. My question is Has she lost her sex appeal towards me and if so what I can do get it back, since I love her and wants to be with her.
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friends
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 3:02 pm
17/f
okay so my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time. the only prob is i don't really see my friends anymore. they tend to make their plans the day of or even hours in advance & by that time, i already have plans. how am i supposed to still hang out with them when i already have plans? they aren't as close to me anymore with anything which isn't good. it's especially hard because my boyfriend doesn't really like the guys they hang out with which makes it harder. so please any suggestions? i really need help getting my friends back! and hanging out with them more often!! thanks!
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who is in the wrong????
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 2:55 pm
okay so i have no clue who is right in this situation. please help! okay so i saw this guy in my summer school class yesterday and i thought he was really cute but he was also very familiar. so i asked his name ad found out it was one of my best friends good friends that she met at the mall one day. so i guess she called him that night and asked if is was him in my class and he said yeah, so then se asked hmim to a movie on saturday. and after she got off the phone with him me and her were talking and i said he was cute and she told me to back off. now i would have been totally fine with this except for THIS part of the story. she liked him for like a week when she met him but after a while they stoped talking cause he was ignoring her cal...
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guyzzzz
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 2:47 pm
i know girls like guys, but im in LOVE with every guy i know! it doesnt matter if he is the ugliest guy in the world, i would still like him! a while ago i had 10 boyfriends, i was datin 2 or 3 at a time, thats not includin all the "friends with benefits" i had too! im only 15 and im already a MAJOR PLAYER, but now im only with one guy, and i love him soooo much, and i feel like hez the only one for me, but....
i have become addicted to havin more than one guy to care about, and i really dont want to cheat on him cuz it would break his heart, and i would lose my best friend cuz she told me if i broke his heart she would break my neck! HELP!!!
i want to save my friendship and my relationship, but.....
how do i resist flirtin with other guys?
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How can i handle losing him?
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 2:43 pm
ok so in 3rd grade i had a crush on this boy. he was the first boy i ever liked. in 4th grade i found out he liked me too. in 5th grade he asked me out, and we've been going out ever since (over two years - we're going into 8th grade). so basically hes been like a major part of my life for 5 years, and we're like best friends and bf/gf at the same time. i love him more than anything! he really loves me too and he says he hopes we can be together forever.
well we both know that we're probably gonna break up at some point. we've even talked about it, that if we ever break up and go out with other people, maybe we can get back together when we're older and get married and stuff. well who knows if that would happen. you cant tel...
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date trouble
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 2:38 pm
14/f
I have always attracted the wrong guy. I can never seem to get the guy that I want, and anyone who DOES want to go out with me just isn't what I want. At all. My friends have told me that I'm skinny and I always get compliments on my hair or skin or smile. If anyone suggests a guy for me, they either don't like me like that or they just aren't my type. I just can't figure out why I can't find a boyfriend. I know bunch of people who just aren't that nice/good-looking/etc. and have a boyfriend all the time. What's wrong with me?
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Friends with Benefits - Your Experiences?
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 1:51 pm
i would like to hear from girls who have had a friends with benefits relationship with a guy. like how it started, and how it ended up. did you have feelings for the guy beyond friendship? did you end up becoming boyfriend & girlfriend? or did you end up getting hurt or feeling used? do you regret it, or are you glad you did it? basically, do you think its a good idea or not?
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need a day without boyfriend
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 12:54 pm
My boyfriend and i have been seeing each other almost every day, and i still really really like him, i just need a day without him. It's come to the point where even the little things he does that wouldn't/shouldn't bother me normally and are just little pet peeves are having me question our relationship, even though i know i'm being stupid and blowing this out of proportion. The only problem is that he sent me this really long email last night about how he misses me already even though it's only been like an hour since he saw me and how much he wants to see me today, etc, etc. I don't want to lie to him about why i can't see him today, but i would really like to let him down easily. any suggestions?
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Please i need to know
Posted Friday June 22 2007, 11:19 am
I have the best husband in the world i love him so much.....but there is one BIG problem he abuses me....he hits slaps pulls my hair elbows me pushes me....but there is another problem i love him to much to leave him i love him so much so leaving him is not an option....what should i do?
Broken hearted and torn
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