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bestfriends new boyfriend.
ohkay so my friend kelly just recently introduced me to one of her friends nick. The first time i talked to him i knew their was something about him. he made me smile all the time and we would spend hours on the phone every nite talked about stupid random stuff but i loved every minute of it. so the other nite i was talking to him and hes like hey hold on and he answered the phone and hes like hey ill call you backk. i asked who it was and he said kelly. i knew kelly liked nick so i was like ohh you should call her then ill go, but he was like noo i wanna talk to you. i knew kelly would really want to talk to him so i was like no its fine i have to go ne ways. so today i was online and kelly told me that nick asked her out and she said yes. shes my bestfriend and i really want to be happy for her. i have a boyfriend and i dont want to go out with this nick kid but i loved talking to him. i feel bad not being happy for my friend but i thought that now she was going out with nick i wouldnt be able to talk to him ne more...but i was wrong. he called me and i was really sad and he asked me what was wrong and i was like ohh nothing. but im really depressed because of this and i dont know why..i mean i have a boyfriend that i really like. sooo is it ohkay to talk to nick because he thinks its fine?? do u think it would hurt kelly if i talked to him??
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if your friends with the nick kiddo, you can talk to him. your bestfriend shouldnt stop you from talking to her boyfriend. and your boyfriend shouldnt stop you from having other guy friends.
the way you write about nick, i think you do have feelings for him, but you wont admit it to yourself. sit down and write out what you like about him, and do the same for your boyfriend. you might end up liking him more than your bf.
if so, i think you should break up with your bf because its not fair to him if you like someone else, its kindof cheating emotionally. even if he is your bestfriends bf.
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you dont realize but you have feelings for nick
try to get rid of them
and think of all the things you like about your boyfriend
be happy for your friend
and you are at least friends with nick so its ok .
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it sounds like you might like nick and not really realize it yet? i think you should talk to nick still and see if anything comes out of it. since kelly introduced you to him, she really shouldn't have a problem with you and nick talking as long as you guys don't develop feelings for eachother. as long as nothing's going on you guys can talk all you want. no harm done. (:
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you dont realize but you have feelings for nick
try to get rid of them
and think of all the things you like about your boyfriend
be happy for your friend
and you are at least friends with nick so its ok .
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If your friend would be hurt because you talk to her boyfriend, then there's something wrong with your friendship. Talk to him.
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