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lost sex appeal?
I am 47 years old male and dated a woman of 34 for the last two years. Since we do live in different countries, we see each other about 4 moths a year. She is really nice and has the perfect temperament for us to have a good relationship.
However, since of late, I could not find a good erection t have sex with her. I performed oral sex on her, and what ever she does become ineffective for my erection.
I could have my blow jobs, and more importantly, I have had sex with other two other women since this problem started.
Obviously nothing wrong with me. My question is Has she lost her sex appeal towards me and if so what I can do get it back, since I love her and wants to be with her.
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If you're the one who's unable to get an erection with your girlfriend, why would you assume that it's her who has the problem? It seems like there's a good chance the problem may be you. Maybe you're just not attracted to her any more and that's why you can get an erection with other women but not her. There's more to attraction than just the physical stuff.
Maybe your mind is preoccupied whenever you get the chance to see her since you do live so far away from each other. The stress of traveling could be taking its toll on your concentration when you are being intimate with her. It sounds to me like there could be other issues in your relationship, especially if you're cheating on her with other people.
You should get yourself checked for sexually transmitted diseases. I'm sure some STDs could prohibit you from maintaining an erection in some instances. No matter how informed you think you are about people's sex lives, it's impossible for you to know for certain what they're doing or what they've done. The two women that you're cheating with or even your girlfriend could have other lovers.
As far as your girlfriend's sexual interest in you - it's hard for me to determine what could be going on without talking to her. Maybe distance is playing a factor and getting to be too much to handle. Maybe she wants a commitment. Maybe she wants to be with someone who isn't sleeping with two other women. I honestly don't know because it could be a lot of things, or it could just be you.
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im taking a wild guess here, that she just does the same routine overr and overr ask her to change it up a little, tell her what the other girls did to make you 'happy'. maybe that will work.
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